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I'm not married but I do believe this to be the case. Dudes have higher sexual urges than women and if they aren't met, there will be issues.Quote:
Originally Posted by ColesBag
Similar to how women have higher emotional needs that need to be met. Issue is that these are often connected to their sexual urges too, so if she finds another guy who can fulfil those emotional needs, chances are he'll also fulfil her sexual needs...
Ideal situation would be an agreement with the Mrs to allow you to leave the emotion at the door step out for an hour , check a box , then come back and continue both happy. But what's the odds of this ey
…don’t get marriedQuote:
Originally Posted by bung72
You might be on to something?!Quote:
Originally Posted by blackm0nk
Sweet. Fuck. All. ????Quote:
Originally Posted by Reaper6
Mate decided to stop punting and tried to get his wife interested is something different.
He joined AFF (Adult friend finder) and found a couple which he met first, then invited around for a bbq.
during the arvo things got a bit heated between the other couple and him and his wife and they all ended up exploring in the lounge room and it turned into fuck fest (so he says).
She now keen on meeting others for joint fun and he reckons she likes it and its not the usual boring fuck.
If I had a wife maybe I try it...
It really comes down to how much your wife is willing to satisfy you. My wife when she was my girlfriend gave me at least a blowjob everytime we met up. Then when we're in a relationship the fun stops. Part of me really regrets not addressing this before we got married.
I don't think it's a fair deal to expect emotional intimacy when the physical intimacy isn't there for the husband or partner. After countless talks, counsellors it still hasn't gotten through, so this is the way to preserve a so called marriage and still have my fun.
If my wife actually made an effort I actually wouldn't punt to be honest. Keep their bellys full and their balls drained is the best advice for a happy monogamous relationship.
Keep their bellys full and their balls drained...
Spot on JimCS!
If women seductively looked into their husband's eyes and gave them a HJ each day, then sex on Friday and a blow job Sunday, the massage parlours would be out of business
Made my wonder why I was in a relationship with her to begin with . Finally met someone in my late 50s that I thought I could settle down with (ie marry , never married either of us previously) . Liked her company but even though she never cheated she did flirt with a lot of other guys , it opened my eyes and finally decided all I wanted was sex and as much as I could get at my age (early 60s) without all the bullshit . Still friends but the passion isn't there anymore and have punted with a vengeance since with MLs and WLsQuote:
Originally Posted by blackm0nk
Correct.Quote:
Originally Posted by bung72
I agree with everything there, absolute facts.Quote:
Originally Posted by Jim_cs
True, I don't get intercourse anymore, she says she can't walk for 3-4 days afterwards, just a weekend hand job for me these days, 3 out of 4 weekends seems to be the norm and definitely nothing mid-week. Sad sex life that makes me wander with an occasional punt just to remember what it feels like. I think if I got something more regular and enthusiastic I wouldn't need to punt at all.Quote:
Originally Posted by HardCockInSyd
After over 10 years of regular punting my wife just caught me out. She was suss I came home late from work and went through my phone, I hadnÂ’t emptied the deleted messages on my iPhone so basically red handed. She threatens to leave me - have two kids 6 and 9 - really a bit gutted but obviously my own fault! Anyone else been busted?
Everyone’s reason for punting is different.
Sorry to hear that and hope you can sort it out with her mate.Quote:
Originally Posted by Ozzie2407
I haven't been busted altho I suspect my partner has some suspicion but then again I'm not so sure if it would worry her, which speaks volumes as to our relationship status!
Oh no my guy. Hope everything is ok. Perhaps this could be an opportunity to talk through the issues.Quote:
Originally Posted by Ozzie2407
Stay well brother.
Was busted 2 years ago, as i fell asleep with my phone unlocked.Quote:
Originally Posted by Ozzie2407
Were married for 4 years at that point of time, so it was quite of miracle that she didnt end it then and there.
Went for counseling and worked it through. Tho i can’t really sneak out much anymore since i have life360 on my phone.
Learned it one way or another, i guess.
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Having Life360 on your phone be like having a cage on your cock n balls, such is married life
Work phone comes to rescue lol.Quote:
Originally Posted by hornedbeast
Which means i can only sneak out during office days.
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