is punting considered cheating?

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Originally Posted by FranktheGun

Got an STI from rubber sex mate

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Can you elaborate?

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Originally Posted by BLEPSICHUNGUS

I equate punting to be at the same level as seeing a doctor or a physio for a medical problem. You go in, pay for a service, get "treated", and then leave.

I often its more moral and ethical if you treat punting as an errand. When you get horny its wrong if you start flirting with other women, have a mistress, find different girls behind your wife etc. You are establishing emotional connections with other people and when you do get caught the whole situation hurts everyone.

I know lots of my friends who punt once a month, get their balls drained, go back to their family, hang out with their kids, love their wives etc

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Many sexless marriages out there. The husband wants to play but the wife is not interested or embarrassed to show her body off. Sometimes the man loses interest and wants to try something new or young.

To answer the main question in this thread, yes it is cheating if you are in a relationship and the other person is unaware of your punting or you're unfaithful to your loved one. If you both agree to an open relationship then it's a different situation.

Where does it cross from non cheating to cheating?

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Originally Posted by Rodman

Ask your wife ?

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This is honestly quite true though

It's only cheating if 1. you are in an EXCLUSIVE relationship and 2. You did NOT disclose to your partner.

not cheating if you are also active with your partner. you are a sex addict and need help

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Originally Posted by thelastdance

Ask your wife or girlfriend. The only opinion that matters in this question.

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I have a friend who's wife is totally ok with him punting, she doesn't see it as cheating at all..