I tried Seeking and a few other SD/SB sites - fielded a lot of messages from P2P operators
then I got banned from seeking for talking about paying someone - who had approached me to pay them - and they remained active on the site
so I would advise that you need to be careful to take payment discussions offline from the platforms - I think she was actually a fake account whereby seeking try to bait you and see if you are using the site for prostitutes. - not that I see much distinction between 1 off pay to play and an ongoing SD/SB situation where you pay to play

