I think my house mate is a massage lady?

I would like to see the progress from the author of this thread

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Originally Posted by mrcookiemann

Stevodog,
Patience is a virtue brother. No need to let her think she is in control by giving in as soon as she starts giving hints. Women prefer a challenge, someone not easily obtainable. How many women do you know have gone after bad boys, or guys they shouldnt? Alot of them want what they cant have, so a bit of reverse psychology is in play here.

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Now, you are talking like TRAVELMATE!
yeah!

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Originally Posted by mrcookiemann

playerz,


Having said that, I have had relationships with MLs in the past whilst keeping in the front of my mind the possible motives she may have. Nothing long term has ever come from any of these relationships but, gees it was fun. And fun is what makes my life enjoyable, so i go to bat fully aware of the risks involved and prepare myself accordingly.

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I am 1000% agree with this at any point of time!!!!!

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Originally Posted by mrcookiemann

playerz,

I do value my current way of life, but doing nothing is not an option anymore, Ive invested too much time and energy in this yummy girl, I can already taste her sweet juices on my tongue, there is no turning back now.
Asking one of my housemates to do my dirty work is neither an option nor my style. Its much better they stay out of the loop.
You make an excellent point about not falling in love with ML/WL, you are quite right we should not do so for the obvious reasons, reasons that have been mentioned many times by brothers on this forum.
Having said that, I have had relationships with MLs in the past whilst keeping in the front of my mind the possible motives she may have. Nothing long term has ever come from any of these relationships but, gees it was fun. And fun is what makes my life enjoyable, so i go to bat fully aware of the risks involved and prepare myself accordingly.

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That's cool dude. Looks like you're in total control of the situation. Like your strategy of ignoring her. It's amazing how needy girls are when one truly knows how to master this skill. Anyway I initially posted my response based on personal experience, but looks like you've also been there before, so all good. If you ever need to bounce ideas, feel free to let us know.

Many MLs and WLs live in the same building and same level of my unit also. I've read this thread for long and thought I should share my experince or not.

I think your case is look like my case, I met a K-girl at the shop in newtown. And I met her again at the building, I was a bit surprised and excited:miao:

I remember the first time that I met her at lobby, that late night I couldn't sleep and came down to smoke, and I had a cigarette in front of the building, she looked like a normal girl (I hadn't seen MLs or WLs outisde their shop before) just came from taxi and asked me "Can I borrow your lighter?". I remembered her but I thought she couldn't remeber me.

After that time when I couldn't sleep as insomnia, I took my laptop to lobby and wished "I wanna see her again tonight". Many times I was lucky and talked to her at lobby until morning. I talked to her a lot, except how about her job. If I don't know what she do, I might fall in live with her. But I realize I was in the real world.

Then I went to her shop again and I saw her in line up... :burn: I chose her and got unforgetable session:cry: Just talked for 30 mins no shower, no service, nothing !!! ... She was very upset that she met me there and thought I was a stoker!, and told me "don't snoop her private life and her job again!" I tried to explain I'd met her before I met her at the building but she didn't want to listen!

On that night I waited her at the lobby til morning, I thought I shouldn't talk to her again, during that time I met her walked from a car, this time she wore the normal clothes as everytime I met her here. I explained everything to her again, she accepted my reason, But she told me "she doesn't want anyone know what is her job, because this is her private life, she wanna be a girl!" and asked me "don't go to that shop again, if I wanna be her friend!" because she couldn't aceppt if she has to work for her friend!.

Now she went back to Korea alrady and she's still my friend.

Anyway, You are so lucky. Enjoy your way:miao:

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Originally Posted by Alexlim

Many MLs and WLs live in the same building and same level of my unit also. I've read this thread for long and thought I should share my experince or not.

I think your case is look like my case, I met a K-girl at the shop in newtown. And I met her again at the building, I was a bit surprised and excited:miao:

I remember the first time that I met her at lobby, that late night I couldn't sleep and came down to smoke, and I had a cigarette in front of the building, she looked like a normal girl (I hadn't seen MLs or WLs outisde their shop before) just came from taxi and asked me "Can I borrow your lighter?". I remembered her but I thought she couldn't remeber me.

After that time when I couldn't sleep as insomnia, I took my laptop to lobby and wished "I wanna see her again tonight". Many times I was lucky and talked to her at lobby until morning. I talked to her a lot, except how about her job. If I don't know what she do, I might fall in live with her. But I realize I was in the real world.

Then I went to her shop again and I saw her in line up... :burn: I chose her and got unforgetable session:cry: Just talked for 30 mins no shower, no service, nothing !!! ... She was very upset that she met me there and thought I was a stoker!, and told me "don't snoop her private life and her job again!" I tried to explain I'd met her before I met her at the building but she didn't want to listen!

On that night I waited her at the lobby til morning, I thought I shouldn't talk to her again, during that time I met her walked from a car, this time she wore the normal clothes as everytime I met her here. I explained everything to her again, she accepted my reason, But she told me "she doesn't want anyone know what is her job, because this is her private life, she wanna be a girl!" and asked me "don't go to that shop again, if I wanna be her friend!" because she couldn't aceppt if she has to work for her friend!.

Now she went back to Korea alrady and she's still my friend.

Anyway, You are so lucky. Enjoy your way:miao:

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Good story bro ! I can understand how she felt !

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Originally Posted by Alexlim

Many MLs and WLs live in the same building and same level of my unit also. I've read this thread for long and thought I should share my experince or not.

I think your case is look like my case, I met a K-girl at the shop in newtown. And I met her again at the building, I was a bit surprised and excited:miao:

I remember the first time that I met her at lobby, that late night I couldn't sleep and came down to smoke, and I had a cigarette in front of the building, she looked like a normal girl (I hadn't seen MLs or WLs outisde their shop before) just came from taxi and asked me "Can I borrow your lighter?". I remembered her but I thought she couldn't remeber me.

After that time when I couldn't sleep as insomnia, I took my laptop to lobby and wished "I wanna see her again tonight". Many times I was lucky and talked to her at lobby until morning. I talked to her a lot, except how about her job. If I don't know what she do, I might fall in live with her. But I realize I was in the real world.

Then I went to her shop again and I saw her in line up... :burn: I chose her and got unforgetable session:cry: Just talked for 30 mins no shower, no service, nothing !!! ... She was very upset that she met me there and thought I was a stoker!, and told me "don't snoop her private life and her job again!" I tried to explain I'd met her before I met her at the building but she didn't want to listen!

On that night I waited her at the lobby til morning, I thought I shouldn't talk to her again, during that time I met her walked from a car, this time she wore the normal clothes as everytime I met her here. I explained everything to her again, she accepted my reason, But she told me "she doesn't want anyone know what is her job, because this is her private life, she wanna be a girl!" and asked me "don't go to that shop again, if I wanna be her friend!" because she couldn't aceppt if she has to work for her friend!.

Now she went back to Korea alrady and she's still my friend.

Anyway, You are so lucky. Enjoy your way:miao:

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This is quite normal! good story

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Originally Posted by wilisno

Good story bro ! I can understand how she felt !

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Originally Posted by Travelmate

This is quite normal! good story

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The fact, I didn't brave to push her more. If I did, I might get a good experience. :slobber:

:fire: I'm jealous mrcookiemann

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Originally Posted by Alexlim

The fact, I didn't brave to push her more. If I did, I might get a good experience. :slobber:

:fire: I'm jealous mrcookiemann

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you never know until you try!
There is always an element of surprise

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Originally Posted by Travelmate

you never know until you try!
There is always an element of surprise

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If I'd had any occasion again, I might have done the same. Because the girl trust me and tell me a lot of her private informations. The important thing is she's so cute:love:

I think you know her because she worked in newtown 3 years ago.

From that exp, I won't contact MLs or WLs outside her shop anymore

Anyway, if I didn't know her much like that, I might brave to try...:miao: , and I'm still jealous mrcookiemann:slobber:

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Originally Posted by Alexlim

If I'd had any occasion again, I might have done the same. Because the girl trust me and tell me a lot of her private informations. The important thing is she's so cute:love:

I think you know her because she worked in newtown 3 years ago.

From that exp, I won't contact MLs or WLs outside her shop anymore

Anyway, if I didn't know her much like that, I might brave to try...:miao: , and I'm still jealous mrcookiemann:slobber:

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Alexlim, the only error you made (if you can say it is an error) was after talking to her a lot in the lobby, going back to see her in the shop. I can see how this would have freaked her out. You did have an opportunity to ask her out on a date.

I once had a relationship with an ML. Once we started going out to dinner etc she made it quite clear she was uncomfortable seeing me for massages. At lunch one day she looked at me sideways, gave me her mobile number and said 'I guess I've just lost a customer'. Things developed from there and as Travelmate says it led to some great times and experiences I will always remember.

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Originally Posted by slarty

Alexlim, the only error you made (if you can say it is an error) was after talking to her a lot in the lobby, going back to see her in the shop. I can see how this would have freaked her out. You did have an opportunity to ask her out on a date.

I once had a relationship with an ML. Once we started going out to dinner etc she made it quite clear she was uncomfortable seeing me for massages. At lunch one day she looked at me sideways, gave me her mobile number and said 'I guess I've just lost a customer'. Things developed from there and as Travelmate says it led to some great times and experiences I will always remember.

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I agree with you bro, the oppotunity wouldn't come to see us many times. If it come,we should catch it. If we couldn't catch it and leave it flow away, it might not come back to see us again.:confused2:. Before it leaves, it might say "No chance for you anymore!"

I might be a lazy bear that lazy to climb to taste sweet honey Attachment 764

and wait under the tree until honeycomb drop to the floor:cry: Attachment 765


that's why I still regret and I'm still jealous mrcookiemann :fire:

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Originally Posted by slarty

Alexlim, the only error you made (if you can say it is an error) was after talking to her a lot in the lobby, going back to see her in the shop. I can see how this would have freaked her out. You did have an opportunity to ask her out on a date.

I once had a relationship with an ML. Once we started going out to dinner etc she made it quite clear she was uncomfortable seeing me for massages. At lunch one day she looked at me sideways, gave me her mobile number and said 'I guess I've just lost a customer'. Things developed from there and as Travelmate says it led to some great times and experiences I will always remember.

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Once you know the girl, you should NEVER go back to the shop.
Even I want massage or FS, I will go to a different shop.
As 99% they have a different name inside and outside the shop.

You know the girl and treat her as a friend, I will not even talk about massage of FS at all unless she mention anything about it.

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Originally Posted by Travelmate

Once you know the girl, you should NEVER go back to the shop.
Even I want massage or FS, I will go to a different shop.
As 99% they have a different name inside and outside the shop.

You know the girl and treat her as a friend, I will not even talk about massage of FS at all unless she mention anything about it.

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That's not always true ! ;) ;) ;)

To alexlim , your story of life just so good to read bro ... So good experience . Hopefully i will get the same one. Cheers bro

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Originally Posted by Travelmate

Once you know the girl, you should NEVER go back to the shop.
Even I want massage or FS, I will go to a different shop.
As 99% they have a different name inside and outside the shop.

You know the girl and treat her as a friend, I will not even talk about massage of FS at all unless she mention anything about it.

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Originally Posted by wilisno

That's not always true ! ;) ;) ;)

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You go to the real point that I forget or I need to forget, I'm not sure.

I remember I shouldn't go to see her at shop but I couldn't clear my brain why I couldn't control my legs to walk to that shop. If I'm free, I'll go somewhere around there and think, the reasons might clear as Dejavu.

Anyway, why general Wil said not always true? You've seen girls outside her shop and you could see her at shop again?:fire: you could make me jealous many times

Im not so sure, id rather be friendly with an ML who i visited than friends with an ML who i did not.

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Originally Posted by cisco

To alexlim , your story of life just so good to read bro ... So good experience . Hopefully i will get the same one. Cheers bro

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555 same case, not same girl:smile:

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Originally Posted by Travelmate

4 weeks vacent or that is the 7% agent fee

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Who will be collecting this 7%.... :cool2:

It's easy to see why an ML or WL wouldn't want to see her BF in the shop.
Just think of the scenario: She has a session with her BF in the shop. After that session, she has another session with a regular punter. Now the fact that she just fucked her BF and immediately after that fucked another man is staring both her and her BF in the face. What happens next? If her BF is not OK with it, she might have to stop working... not good. If her BF is OK with it, that means he is OK with her fucking other men.... not good either.
It's a lose-lose situation for her.

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Originally Posted by GoldfishMan

It's easy to see why an ML or WL wouldn't want to see her BF in the shop.
Just think of the scenario: She has a session with her BF in the shop. After that session, she has another session with a regular punter. Now the fact that she just fucked her BF and immediately after that fucked another man is staring both her and her BF in the face. What happens next? If her BF is not OK with it, she might have to stop working... not good. If her BF is OK with it, that means he is OK with her fucking other men.... not good either.
It's a lose-lose situation for her.

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I think the boy friend may need to put up with this ...... particular in the beginning ...

no update from mrcookiemann:question:

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Originally Posted by mrcookiemann

I think one of my house mates is working in a massage shop?
Over time I have picked up subtle hints and discovered little clues. Im so curious to learn more...

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So... What did you learn? Did you achieve another massage from her?
-Matt-

Everyone needs a place where they can feel safe and private. That includes ml and wl. Just leave her alone and do your punting somewhere else.
They already suffer a lot of stress by hiding their profession. Who needs to be stressed out at their home?

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Originally Posted by PunterBoy

Everyone needs a place where they can feel safe and private. That includes ml and wl. Just leave her alone and do your punting somewhere else.
They already suffer a lot of stress by hiding their profession. Who needs to be stressed out at their home?

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Well said bro !