For those married

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Originally Posted by RoyalFlush

Can I assume that you are married? Because this question doesnt apply to you if you are single or divorced.

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Yes, i'm married and have been for quite a few years. I started punting a few years after I got married.

screwing hot korean bitches is a birth right :slobber:

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Originally Posted by H3da

Do you feel guilty going to Massage or FS place? So far I've only been to massage place with extras but been reluctant to ones with FS or brothel. Is it considered cheating?

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I would imagine you are going to consider all the responses and then form your own opinion. This is my own opinion:

Cheating would be more like having a relationship that involves social exchange akin to establishing a meaningful relationship. That takes time, energy, and emotional investment. This would include spending hours on a dating site or at a club to court the girl. I would also include sexual relationships with women you are likely to see in social circles, work, gym, etc. You know, anything that lacks a degree of discretion offered by brothels and private apartments.

Punting is like masturbating to porn, except that there is brief social interaction, which is limited in breadth and scope. (However, always treat the sex workers with utmost respect, even when they are terrible. They deserve to have dignity.) Personally, I never knowingly punt with same worker (however, sometimes I later discover that a girl has changed name or shop.) As for FS versus RnT? Same to me, but you make your own decision.

I find that I do not resent my partner for not fulfilling the sexual fantasies I have but, instead, appreciate even more what she does well. I just get my fantasies fulfilled at the brothel for 30-60 minutes once or twice a month. (if there is no disposable $ then there is no punt). At home, I treat my partner like them gem she is, giving her 100% of my emotional capability. And when we have sex, it is all about her, what she likes, and what we do well together.

Your life will be over in a blink. Be happy, but be cool.

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Originally Posted by 2paxghost

I would imagine you are going to consider all the responses and then form your own opinion. This is my own opinion:

Cheating would be more like having a relationship that involves social exchange akin to establishing a meaningful relationship. That takes time, energy, and emotional investment. This would include spending hours on a dating site or at a club to court the girl. I would also include sexual relationships with women you are likely to see in social circles, work, gym, etc. You know, anything that lacks a degree of discretion offered by brothels and private apartments.

Punting is like masturbating to porn, except that there is brief social interaction, which is limited in breadth and scope. (However, always treat the sex workers with utmost respect, even when they are terrible. They deserve to have dignity.) Personally, I never knowingly punt with same worker (however, sometimes I later discover that a girl has changed name or shop.) As for FS versus RnT? Same to me, but you make your own decision.

I find that I do not resent my partner for not fulfilling the sexual fantasies I have but, instead, appreciate even more what she does well. I just get my fantasies fulfilled at the brothel for 30-60 minutes once or twice a month. (if there is no disposable $ then there is no punt). At home, I treat my partner like them gem she is, giving her 100% of my emotional capability. And when we have sex, it is all about her, what she likes, and what we do well together.

Your life will be over in a blink. Be happy, but be cool.

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Ne'er was a truer word spoken!