First time dating a single mum

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Originally Posted by jediknight4ever

If you don't believe my story that's fine, but why bother reading on and nitpicking every word I write? Should I feel obliged to explain my wording?

Yes I spent a whole Sunday writing this story on the forum just so I can troll some faceless strangers whom I could care less about. Oh I feel such gratification from that.

But if anyone knows a good psychologist preferably in the Eastern Suburbs or Inner West, please let me know.

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Well in order to work out if a story is bullshit or not one has to read it first, at least until it becomes obvious that it's just bullshit talk.
I think the reason why you spent your whole Sunday writing this story was so that you can type with one hand and use the other one to maybe stroke yourself. But hey there is nothing wrong with stroking yourself or your ego. I think what is more concerning is that you wasted your whole Sunday writing bullshit stories.

So Inner West or Eastern Suburbs? Which one? They are not really close to each other. Just more proof you are pulling things out of your arse. If you do need a shrink see your GP bro. I'd say the only thing a shrink will tell you is to simply get a life.

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Originally Posted by CunningLinguist

Yeah who gives a shit about foundation member status, probably the same person that thinks a high post count means something ...
That same person was given a million post count as a joke (which he didn't get) on another forum because he complained about losing post count points for his constant image spamming.

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Who is the troll now ?

It's one thing to be a disbeliever, it's another to be a dick about it. But maybe I should visit my GP about seeing a psychologist. Good advice and if I don't have a life then thank you for reading about it.

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Originally Posted by jediknight4ever

I guess that's the general consensus, I shall leave it be then. It just eats me up that I can't share it with my friends or family. Anyways looking forward to meeting more desperate girls out there in the real world. :-)

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Mate, please explain what do you mean by meeting more desperate girls out there ?

And for that comment did you also imply that it is the more desperate girls who also happened to be a single mum that you are after ?

Wow! Now I'm not sure if I follow your ulterior motives ??

Don't only read my comment AHLUNGOR, read other's comments above that comment. I'm merely agreeing with puntercouple that girls in their late 20s and early 30s are probably more desperate, especially Asian girls. Oh I probably should not have said "real world" because that is as some call it "proof" that my story is not real.

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Originally Posted by jediknight4ever

Don't only read my comment AHLUNGOR, read other's comments above that comment. I'm merely agreeing with puntercouple that girls in their late 20s and early 30s are probably more desperate, especially Asian girls. Oh I probably should not have said "real world" because that is as some call it "proof" that my story is not real.

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No worry mate,


I am just a bit uncomfortable if I am reading about some guy is purposely out there targeting single mum because they are seemed to be desperate for love or sex or companionship or whatever.

But hey, I'm no white knight and everyone is responsible only to his/her own actions and simply each to his own .

Whatever you are after, as long as it is legal and not breaking the law, you'll be right mate .

Cheers

Thanks mate yeah I'm just gonna take things slow and steady now. Not jumping into anything ever again.

Hi mate,

If you need to seek help try find one immediately to make you feel better. Just read the incident in central station the other day and the guy got shot. He had mental illness and ice user. Not saying you have mental illness but it's good to find one if you feel you need one. My 2 cents..cheers.

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Originally Posted by jediknight4ever

I still feel bitter that she took her fiancee's flowers and destroyed my origami ones which actually takes time and effort to make.

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I feel for you. All the best. Hope all is good

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Originally Posted by jediknight4ever

But if anyone knows a good psychologist preferably in the Eastern Suburbs or Inner West, please let me know.

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Maybe the French-Viet Fiancé/Doctor can give you some referrals ;)

This Maxybro normally seems like a dick but I'm with him. This whole story sounds like giant BS

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Originally Posted by BongKong

This Maxybro normally seems like a dick but I'm with him. This whole story sounds like giant BS

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Jedi bro, you know you're in trouble when a bullshit talker like BongKong calls your story bullshit.

Bongkong bro, just because I called one of your stories just bullshit talk doesn't mean we have to be enemies.

But anyway, thanks for agreeing with me on this one. It means a lot.

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Originally Posted by jeter

Maybe the French-Viet Fiancé/Doctor can give you some referrals ;)

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Best comment in the thread so far lol

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Originally Posted by Maxybro

Jedi bro, you know you're in trouble when a bullshit talker like BongKong calls your story bullshit.

Bongkong bro, just because I called one of your stories just bullshit talk doesn't mean we have to be enemies.

But anyway, thanks for agreeing with me on this one. It means a lot.

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Haha I dont consider you an enemy.

When i stop being selfish I'll even consider PMing you the details from my other encounter and you can judge my story yourself.

But this story i cant even believe elicited serious replies.

Yeah gotta give a good mention to jeter on that comment. Of course it sounds BS because it's not something you'd imagine happening to yourself. I don't know what trouble I'm in because I don't know BongKong or you MaxyBro. I haven't been on this forum for months because I actually do have a life and the only members that rings a bell to me are CunningLinguist and AHLUNGOR whom I remember from the old forums. Anyhow believe what you want as only I know what really happened.

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Originally Posted by jediknight4ever

Yeah gotta give a good mention to jeter on that comment. Of course it sounds BS because it's not something you'd imagine happening to yourself. I don't know what trouble I'm in because I don't know BongKong or you MaxyBro. I haven't been on this forum for months because I actually do have a life and the only members that rings a bell to me are CunningLinguist and AHLUNGOR whom I remember from the old forums. Anyhow believe what you want as only I know what really happened.

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No trouble from me im a nobody on this forum lol

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Originally Posted by jediknight4ever

Yeah gotta give a good mention to jeter on that comment. Of course it sounds BS because it's not something you'd imagine happening to yourself. I don't know what trouble I'm in because I don't know BongKong or you MaxyBro. I haven't been on this forum for months because I actually do have a life and the only members that rings a bell to me are CunningLinguist and AHLUNGOR whom I remember from the old forums. Anyhow believe what you want as only I know what really happened.

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Bro cmon you say you have a life but a 30 something year old making origami for a woman? You are just contradicting yourself all over the place.
Anyway good luck and looking forward to your next fictional story.

What's wrong with showing your affection for someone by spending some time and effort making things for them? I don't buy flowers because it can be easily bought and delivered, only takes a few minutes to order.

I am not a normal 30 something year old, I'm too trusting in ppl and a bit naive, that is why she was able to fool me for so long, because I believed every word she said.

That was quite an entertaining read. Fiction or not, it is quite normal in man's pursuit in relationships and love. Do you attract the not so stable women out there? Perhaps you have a subdued, mundane life that crave a little drama? I know I have... Strippers, hooker's and massage girls give me a little excitement, and drama that I try to stay at arms length from. That is not always possible when it's part and parcel of this emotional chase that we put ourselves through... The Malaysian restaurant in Pennant Hills... Maybe it was Thornleigh? Istana?

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Originally Posted by cmk76

The Malaysian restaurant in Pennant Hills... Maybe it was Thornleigh? Istana?

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All I remember is you had to drive in through the back of a commercial building ramp then turn left to find parking. The restaurant is upstairs and there was an escalator/lift as well, she wanted to have the Hainan Chicken there, I didn't think it was any special as they don't have the savoury and oily ginger shallot sauce.

Yes I do crave a little excitement, but got a whole lot more than I bargained for as did she. I guess she just wanted an affair to remember and wanted it to be real so that's why she lied to me about being single.

But the only thing real about it was the baby, I honestly didn't know you can just take a pill for abortion. I feel less guilty now about taking her to the clinic knowing why she did what she did.

When she knew I found out everything as we were having dinner at Mooney Mooney Club. (There's a guy called Greg who welcomes you on Wednesday night, he would remember that there was a distressed Asian woman who asked for a taxi to take her back home on the 19th of July) She got distressed and had a breakdown, I didn't feel any sympathy for her, all I felt was so much built up anger and hatred from all the lies she told me.

It hurts because I was in love with her, right before the abortion. This is my therapy in a way yes, I know that my baby is one with the Force and nothing I say or do will bring him back to me. I'm reminiscing that song by Kate Miller-Heidke "The Last Day on Earth".

Even though I can live with it, the emotional scar will forever be there. And to you MaxyBro my loyal disbeliever, you only need to call Clinic 66 and ask how much the abortion consultation costs, because I did not pay $490 to go there for a check up. It's funny that Order 66 killed all the Jedis and Clinic 66 killed my youngling, oh such f*cking irony.

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Originally Posted by jediknight4ever

It hurts because I was in love with her, right before the abortion. This is my therapy in a way yes, I know that my baby is one with the Force and nothing I say or do will bring him back to me. I'm reminiscing that song by Kate Miller-Heidke "The Last Day on Earth".

Even though I can live with it, the emotional scar will forever be there.

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That is heavy stuff.

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Originally Posted by jediknight4ever

What's wrong with showing your affection for someone by spending some time and effort making things for them? I don't buy flowers because it can be easily bought and delivered, only takes a few minutes to order.

I am not a normal 30 something year old, I'm too trusting in ppl and a bit naive, that is why she was able to fool me for so long, because I believed every word she said.

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There is nothing wrong with you. You are a very affectionate person.

Jedi, talking about it helps, so don't feel as if you can't share. There will always be people calling bullshit or making judgements but seeing as you're still posting in here and quite civilly, I take it you can look past them.

From what I've read in your anecdote, what you should take out of it is that you've done nothing wrong. She lied and and you were just unaware that she took you on a ride. What she did was extremely selfish, possibly looking for an alternative/backup future in Australia despite ready to build one in France/Vietnam/wherever her and the doctor wanted to settle in. I suppose she has two kids to think about, hence the recklessness of yours and the doctor's emotions.

All I can say is, chock it up to experience. No doubt you'll be more careful in your next relationship, for better or worse.

Also, don't feel the need to have to provide "evidence" especially if it's personal. You don't need to prove anything, this isn't a court and we're not a panel of judges. Just let out what you need to, and just reply back to those who are willing to listen and provide constructive feedback.

I personally can't be fucked venting out my personal issues on a public forum because I don't like dealing with trolls or people who feel the need to put their "2 cents" in no matter how useless it is. Luckily I've had a few members reach out to me and we email regularly. Punting is something that no one knows about in my circle of friends and family so it's the only way I get things off my chest.

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Originally Posted by scooper

You must have too much time on your hands... banged somebody in the hair salon lmao !!

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It's actually a beauty spa not a hair salon.

Thank you all for reading, writing and understanding.
I am a very compassionate and sensitive guy.
I have started this week able to control my tears.
I shall see my GP shortly about seeing a psychologist.

For those who are interested, her name was Lucy.

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Originally Posted by jediknight4ever

I have started this week able to control my tears.

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Don't fight your tears. A real man is able to show emotion.