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Its easy to catch feelings with regulars but then after you do the math where on average they would do 30hrs a week =30 guys times 52 weeks=1560 guys. Thats litterally means she did it with a whole school in just a year. They must have a heart of steel because I dont know how this wont put off anyone wanting a relationship with them.Quote:
Originally Posted by thunder545454
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Originally Posted by Choi
Bro,If you happen to read this:
Leave her alone. Her job is to provide service for money. No emotional attachments. ML and WL are not GF /wife material. Most of them are money hungry and mentally damaged. Even if you offer them a decent life still they will run after more/quick money. The good ones always quit when they have enough. So just pay, f**k and leave. You are giving her too much attention. I am sure there are many girls in ginza and N5 prettier than her. Just f**k them and move on. Dont get emotionally attached.
Bro ,Which shop TP64 ?Quote:
Originally Posted by Candy1234
honey, trust me i been in her shoes. when client start looking at u differently its unsettling. we pros but emotions complicate things.
respect her boundaries darling. if she say stop, stop. dont make her uncomfortable its not worth it. u might think ur harmless but ur gaze ur words can pressure her.
reflect on ur feelings yeah but prioritize her comfort. this industry already blur lines dont cross them.
remember we not girlfriends or partners we service providers. keep it pro, respectful.
if u truly care walk away. let her breathe easy
Well said Sarez!Quote:
Originally Posted by sarahnguyen
Btw: I noticed your command of English has improved dramatically in just 2 posts. That's fucken insane. What's your trick, do you use a magic stik?
Based on your post history, it seems like you're a certified simp. Maybe you creeped her out a little, best to just move on and stop falling in love with WLs. You're wasting money on people who put on an act to fulfil a fantasy. Unless you're a very attractive man, the likelyhood of you being her boyfriend is close to zero, you're just a wallet. And based on her reply, at least she seems nice enough to shut you down, instead of taking advantage of your wallet.
haha my friend helped meQuote:
Originally Posted by Double_Adapter
Oooohhh, but "she" used U instead of you everywhere. I mean like, *everywhere" in that post. Surely that must count for something??Quote:
Originally Posted by Double_Adapter
Plus, doesn't know how to add an "are" in "we not girlfriends", but somehow knows how to use "ur".... Ooopss!!
*Cringe*
Well, regardless of source, provider, punter, or troll, still valid advice.Quote:
Originally Posted by Double_Adapter
Response to the OP
Bruh, let me tell you, this thread is more embarrassing than your mum walking in on you mid-wank as a teenager. You’ve got your metaphorical pants down, and now everyone’s staring. The difference? Back then, you could shout, “Mum, knock next time!” Now, this is on the internet forever. There’s no door to slam shut here.
But real talk, mate—how did it even get this far? I’ll tell you how: boundaries. Healthy ones. Like, this WL is trying to run a business, and you’re out here acting like you’re auditioning for The Notebook 2: The Punting Diaries. You’ve got to know when to call it a day. Instead, you’ve got her saying things like “you never took your eyes off me for even 1 second.” I mean, what were you doing, staring her down like she owed you money?
Let me spell it out for you: if this WL’s response is legit, she’s already got you pegged as a stalker. Not a sexy one like in rom-coms, but the kind that makes people triple-check their locks. That’s not a vibe, mate—it’s a red flag. My advice? See a therapist. Not the type with “massage” on their sign. One that can help you unpack why you’re confusing transactional services with your search for true love.
Bounce, my guy. Get out of here before you lose whatever dignity you’ve got left. Plenty of fish in the sea, and some of them will even smile at you without feeling like they’re under a laser pointer.
Response to Choi
Choi, let me just say, your response had more class than the Opera House on a Friday night. You handled this with so much grace, I half-expected a standing ovation at the end. If there’s a handbook on how to deal with awkward clients, your reply should be Chapter One. “How to Gently Tell a Puntersaurus to Jog On.”
That said, I’ve got one question that’s been rattling around in my head like loose change in a washing machine: How the hell did your customer know this thread was about you? I’m not Sherlock, but the OP didn’t leave any massive clues lying around. Here’s my theory:
1. Repeat Visits: The OP was a regular. That’s like leaving your DNA all over the crime scene. Regular punters know the vibe, and yours stood out.
2. Unique Interaction: Apparently, he stared at you like you were the last chicken schnitty at the pub buffet. That’s memorable.
3. Shop Gossip: Maybe someone at the shop tipped you off. “Oi, Choi, check out this thread. Is this the guy who stares at you like he’s trying to read your mind?”
4. Punter Detective Work: Someone out there probably pieced this together from their own experiences. The internet is full of amateur sleuths with too much free time.
Anyway, great job setting boundaries. You’ve got more patience than a Sydney commuter stuck on Parramatta Road at 5 p.m.
Response to the Forum
Alright, punters, gather ‘round. This thread, “WL’s Request to Decline Visits,” is like a cautionary tale wrapped in an episode of Married at First Sight. Here’s what we can all learn before someone else ends up as the next episode:
1. Respect the WL’s Boundaries
When a WL says “Don’t come back,” that’s your cue to exit stage left. Don’t be the guy still hanging around hoping for an encore. This isn’t a rock concert. Respect her wishes and jog on.
2. Avoid Emotional Attachments
This ain’t The Bachelor. It’s transactional. You pay, you smile, you leave. Start catching feelings, and you’re heading for a trainwreck. Trust me, WLs aren’t looking for the next Mr. Right—they’re looking to pay their rent.
3. Understand Power Dynamics
WLs see things you don’t. That intense gaze you think is soulful connection? She’s reading it as “I need a new lock on my front door.” You’re not Ryan Gosling. She’s not swooning.
4. Learn to Take Rejection Gracefully
Rejection happens. Don’t act like you’ve been banished from paradise. “Why doesn’t she like me?” Because she doesn’t. Move on, mate. There’s no sequel to this story.
5. Reflect on Your Intentions
Are you here for stress relief, or are you filling a hole the size of the Harbour Bridge in your soul? Figure it out before you make things weird for everyone.
Investigations for the Forum Sleuths
Now, for the online detectives out there, here are two little freebies for you to chew on:
Language Investigation
Choi’s reply wasn’t written in English first. It was like a fine bottle of soju—imported.
1. Translation Artifacts: Phrases like “each other has a different mind” scream Google Translate.
2. Korean Source (80% Match): The tone, indirectness, and politeness point to Korean. Mandarin (50%) is another contender, but it’s less likely—it’s usually more direct.
OP vs. Choi: Same Person?
Are they the same person? Nah, probably not. Here’s why:
1. Tone: OP is emotional and scattered. Choi is calm and professional.
2. Writing Style: OP writes fluently, like an Aussie-born punter. Choi’s got translation quirks, like “I hope you accept my request.”
3. Chance They’re the Same: Slim to none—80-90% they’re different people.
Final Thoughts
This thread is a car crash we can all learn from. Respect boundaries, keep it professional, and for the love of all things sacred, don’t stare at someone like they’re the last Macca’s nugget. Let’s do better, punters. And for the sleuths, enjoy those freebies.
Could've been worse. He could've uploaded a response video on Youtube like that Linq guy.
Once again, excellent insight coated with humor, great read. The "need a new lock on my front door" had me LOL. And so true, in talking with WG's, they really can have a different perspective on things.Quote:
Originally Posted by Mybadwilly22
Offshore bar FL'er, brand new arrival. A girl I knew (biblical sense) touted me to Miss New, saying I was safe. I wanted LT, she only ST. She was interesting enough, I agreed. Took her home, enjoyed, she still wanted to leave, so put her in a taxi and sent her on her way.
She became a regular. 6 months later, she confessed: I'd been her very first customer. She had just arrived in an (unfriendly) country that very day, and only knew her apartment by its color IN DAYLIGHT. Now, at night, sodium streetlights, colors changed, she couldn't recognize the building. She had spent over an hour, wandering around trying to figure out which building was hers, terrified of anything and everything, hiding between parked cars when anyone passed by. Finally another PRC appeared who she could ask for directions.
Her comment to me: "I was so stupid. I was absolutely terrified, but I could have spent the night with you, relaxing (how romantic) AND earning more money" (how pragmatic).
Thats right. As I always say to you bro's, unless you're handsome AF like Brad Pitt or Chris Hemsworth, the "intense gaze" is just creepy & will give her the ickQuote:
Originally Posted by Mybadwilly22
The OP is obviously not handsome by the sounds of things
Can we please not scare away good ML/WL's !! They are hard to come by. We have entire threads dedicated to who we miss in the industry. So many leave !!
Some of them may leave because of other jobs, meeting new sugar daddies or going back to their home countries. My experience, most times... The girl got creeped out or couldnt deal with the punters !!
Yes it is transactional no doubt, we pay the money, they provide the service. Can we also pay the money and give some respect with it. It can be a pleasurable experience for both parties this way.
Just because you are paying for dinner, does not give you the right to disrespect the waiter is another way of looking at it.
Just my 2 cents. Never mind me LOL
Final Response: Zigman, Kamala, and Apu Walk Into a Punt…
Alright, lads, let’s shut this circus down before it turns into a Bollywood trilogy. Zigman, mate, you almost had me sold. I was this close to buying the whole “I’m not Indian, I’m just misunderstood” shtick. But then the boys in the forum started connecting the dots, and I can’t lie—they’ve made a bloody compelling case. Now, here I am, a swing voter, and facts are like my personal sausage sizzle—I need the whole snag before I make a decision.
You see, it did cross my mind why you kept jumping to defend Indians on this thread. But I brushed it off like, “Nah, maybe he’s just passionate about the diversity of smells at the massage table.” Turns out, I was wrong. Thank you, forum sleuths, for opening my eyes faster than a WL turning on the lights when your time’s up.
Kamala and Zigman: A Match Made in Identity Limbo
Now let’s get to it—why you, Zigman, are the Kamala Harris of this forum. Here’s the tea: Kamala’s got a whole masala pot of Indian roots—mum’s Indian, dad’s rumored to be linked to it—but does she lean into it? Nah, she’s out here playing up the African-American identity like it’s her winning lotto ticket. It’s all “fried chicken and collard greens” at campaign stops, but you know there’s a tandoori oven in her family kitchen screaming, “Don’t forget me!”
And you, Zigman, are playing the same game. You’re dodging your roots harder than Kamala dodging tough questions about the southern border. She’s supposed to be the “border tsar,” but that border’s letting people in like it’s happy hour. And you? You’re out here trying to break through the WL’s closed gates like an illegal crossing, hoping she’ll stamp your passport with a smile. Mate, she’s building walls faster than Trump with a bucket of bricks and a vendetta.
Apu Called, He Wants His Drama Back
You know who you remind me of, Zigman? Apu from The Simpsons. That man’s got undeniable Indian energy—accent, mannerisms, the whole curry kit and caboodle—but he’s still out here pretending he’s just your friendly neighborhood convenience store guy. That’s you, Zigman. The forum’s been staring at your “I’m not Indian” act, and now we’re all like, “C’mon, mate, at least own the smell of the naan you’ve been sniffing.”
Zigman’s Psychological Curry
Mate, let me sprinkle a little psychologist seasoning on this. Here’s your profile:
1. Boundary Issues:
Kamala’s got border chaos; you’ve got WL chaos. She’s waving people through while you’re waving yourself back into a WL’s life where you’ve been blacklisted. Newsflash: they both said no.
2. Identity Acrobatics:
Kamala’s juggling heritage for votes. You’re juggling this “I’m not Indian” narrative for sympathy. It’s like watching someone try to butter naan with chopsticks—it doesn’t work, mate.
3. Obsession with Validation:
Kamala’s got Oprah clapping for her on stage, and you’re here hoping Choi will give you the green light to visit again. Spoiler: both are wishful thinking.
Choi, Be the Border Guard We Need
Choi, we need you to settle this, love. Is Zigman Indian, or is he just doing the “Apu Special”? Help us out here. The forum’s divided like a naan bread at a family dinner, and I can’t rest until I know the truth.
And while we’re at it, Choi, please confirm—did Zigman really stare at you like the last biryani at the buffet? Because if he did, that’s Exhibit A for why the WL put up her No Entry sign.
My Swing Vote: Kamala vs. Zigman
Now, I wasn’t going to bring politics into this, but let’s be real—this thread has me voting for anyone except Kamala. Zigman, you’ve got me questioning everything, and I’m not just talking about the WL. You’re the only bloke who can make me look at U.S. politics and think, “Yeah, maybe Apu should run for office instead.”
Promise to the Forum
And to my fellow punters—this is it. My final comment. I’m out. Done. Finished. But not because I want to be, oh no. This thread’s like a dodgy massage joint—overpriced, unsatisfying, but somehow you can’t stop coming back. I’m not proud of it, but I’m a junkie for this drama.
Zigman, thank you for the entertainment. Choi, you’re the hero we need. And to the rest of the forum—let’s let this thread die in peace. Good day, fellas.
For some reason this reminds me of the Anakin skywalker gaze at padme. The creepy smile that made her uncomfortable.Quote:
Originally Posted by mn69
But how did it lead to this point? Was she cleaning up and he just stand there watching?
@choi
U need to msg au99moderator
I believe that the contact number
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