Originally Posted by
annintofu
u nailed it.
when I was in my early 20s, I always associated marriage with lots of free sex, but realiaty is far less rosy: house work, dealing with each other's habits, visiting in-laws, compromise on what she wants to buy vs what you want. little differences can add up and destroy the relationship. add a kid into the daily fray, and you'd really wonder why the heck you got yourself into this mess.
marriage is not for everyone (or should I say not the best choice for most people?).
having kids is absolutely not for most couples. one smart guy once said to me: there is never a good time to have a kid, unless u r super rich, don't have to work etc.