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Don’t marry be happy lol
You are wise beyond your years, young lady.Quote:
Originally Posted by mulanbaby
My wife and I were happily married for 2 years...out of 15...Quote:
Originally Posted by rooter
You don’t need to speak to any thai punterQuote:
Originally Posted by doctorspock
Speak to any thai woman you know under a certain age . A solid number will clearly show disdain
This lack of respect for the Monarchy is very disappointing.
"God Save the Queen!"
That was how I was brought up.
Respect and obedience to Queen and country.
That's how it should be.
What do we have now? A rabble!
No respect. No sense of country or authority or community.
The tyranny of the individual. Everyone thinks they are so special. Rights but no obligations. Freedom but no responsibility.
That's why we are in the mess we are in now.
Bring back respect for the monarchy. That will be a good start.
You don't know what happiness is until you get married.Quote:
Originally Posted by mulanbaby
But then it is too late.
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Originally Posted by mulanbaby
Mulanbaby might only be joking (I'm not sure) but I'm sure her and Rooter's situations are so different on so many different levels that make his encouragment of her non-plan not very valid. :miao:Quote:
Originally Posted by rooter
Is mulanbaby not joking? In Chinese culture isn't there even more expectation and pressure for the girls to be married before certain ages? Much more than in the west. At least that is what I've learnt from quite a few years of watching If You are the One. :question:
Life is a cycle. Feelings and desires change over time. Marriage is a commitment and has its risk. If you marry a guy who is a lazy bum or gambler, you are guaranteed to be unhappy. If you stay single will still be unhappy but no risk as you can do whatever and whenever you like.Quote:
Originally Posted by mulanbaby
The golden rule is married or not but be financially independent so if anything happens, you can walk out of any relationship and support yourself.
I really don't see what the fuss is all about.
As long as nothing is hidden, everyone is aware of each other and their past.
I know of one couple who met in brothel, it became regular, and she told him she needed a sponsor.
They agreed together on the conditions.
Its now 25 years they have been married, 3 kids and mum still works in the same brothel. (which they now own together).
I have seen it work.
I have also seen it NOT work with another couple.
The key is knowledge and agreements and keep their word.
I am watching a couple I know now, she was an ML and he was a novice. Basically a 34yo virgin.
Will it work ?
I doubt it, but he's an idiot who really needs a carer, maybe he's found it.
mulanbaby...
Never say never, you may marry one day. Just make the best of the situation your in at that time, I had 3 years of bliss 3 years of so so and 5 years of living with a crazy bitch that had violent mood swings and would more than often scream at me in her language.
I only persevered the last 5 years because of the kids and they were the little ray of sunshine that I clung to.
Maybe later, now be happy first
Girls only good before 30. After 30 no one want.
Then I marry. Hahaha
NOT TRUE!!!
There's a Korean divorced milf in my complex she's 36 years old and absolutely stunning. I would love to fuck her.
Her child is one of mines classmates, needless to say I encourage my child to go over for playdates just so I have an excuse to go over and chat with her for a while.
Forgot,
I love school pick ups too, watching all the yummy mummys (who would all be 30 plus), treating it more as a line up thinking "who would I choose today" and believe me there are some stunners. And they are still stunning wearing street clothes or even just trackie dacks and a sloppy joe.
Then more happy times for me lol
I like single. If I want to go Cairns tomorrow, I can.
After marry maybe.
After kids impossible.
People avoid marrying WL/ML because they are high maintenance both financial and maybe physically....have to satisfy them othewise they will find ways to get satisfied?
I don’t think working girls marry clients.
Easy to argue.
I don't think this applies in Australia. Maybe asian but not hereQuote:
Originally Posted by mulanbaby
Most won't marry their clients unless they're really desperate for permanent residence or the client is a millionaire who can give her what she wants. If they decide to marry, they will try to find someone who knows nothing about their previous work history.Quote:
Originally Posted by mulanbaby
Never been interested in marriage so if I were to marry a woman or man or trans or WL or doctor or nurse or black or white or brown or yellow or an avocado or onion it makes no difference to me.
I could see myself very happily married to a leak or maybe a turnip.
Millionaire will not find work girls?Quote:
Originally Posted by cuteguy
They find models or small stars?
or a sex doll, or a beautiful robot.Quote:
Originally Posted by rooter
Plenty of millionaire chase working girls...Quote:
Originally Posted by mulanbaby
you need many millions for other working girls 😁😁 such as models, small stars.
so true.Quote:
Originally Posted by mulanbaby
I always wonder what made you guys having a sudden urge to start a family?
for me there were 3 stages
1: before 18: had a crush on a girl, just wanted to be with her all the time.
2: early 20s : the silly, naive thought about free sex any time I wanted it
3: early 30s: met a nice girl who was anxious to get married, and I didn't want to lose her.
I never understood the implications, responsibilities, and burdens of marriage and kids until it was too late.
a classmate (female) got divorced at 26 after 3 years of marriage, and told me it was just because of little differences that caused daily squabbling that drove her crazy, I was shocked at the time, just that???
she's still single and enjoying her life, while I feel like kicking myself for not heeding her lesson back then.
when I was young, I felt there was no need to sweat the small stuff, now I see they can add up over time and weigh you down.
people should carefully read the fine prints before signing a big long term contract such as marriage. Don't get fooled by the glossy brochure (i.e cute face and hot body).
Who said you can't be a "kid" forever? It's your life, be a man and take control of it.Quote:
Originally Posted by Effindahead
Having said that, I can understand why some people "suddenly" want to start a family. It's your natural instinct to leave your mark on the world. To continue your bloodline, etc.
What I think about marriage is, don't even think about it if you don't want kids. Never trust a girl who says she doesn't want kids either because they will change their tune.
Don't get me wrong, I have nothing against marriage. There are benefits you can get from it, you just have to make sure of a few things. You ought to be in a very good position either in your career or financially. This takes out a lot of stress that usually destroy relationships.
To get to that level probably means you're getting on in age. So, the second point is to make sure you marry a far younger girl than your own age. There are so many benefits from this. It guarantees that you will have at least multiple years of awesome fun (great sex, traveling, adventures, whatever) before the ultimate killjoy comes (kids).
You will also very much appreciate that your wife is much younger than you are when you get really old.