Originally Posted by
RobertLudlum
I will put the cat into those said flying rats
I have had "relationships" with ex wives, defacto (16 years, she ripped me off), strippers (worst), normal GFs (many) and a few WL and am "friendly" with a few ladies now.
Of all the WL I have met, strippers and other, I can count on 1 hand those ladies who are worthy, 2 are current WL but they have such complicated and often painful lives that being with them and trusting 2 ways would be beyond normal.
In terms of cost the marriage was so expensive long run that I could have been with a WL one hour in the morning and one hour in the afternoon for the better part of 15 years, 365 days a year.... the biggest RISK financially to you is the lady in your bed....so normal relationships often end up being "partly" about $, prestige and other.
If you like a WL or ML, I do some things to test them out..... some of you will think this is not necessarily nice but I have been "hit on" by 6 or 7 WL in the last year and all but 2 have failed the test.... TRUST is key in any relationship and often that trust will come from within you.... I rarely trust anyone over the long run because humans being what they are generally fail.
Many ladies who do this like the quick big $, and no I am not suggesting it is easy cash because every WL and ML has a daily horror show with 1 or more customers. Also, life in the real world has little to do with just SEX. I went out with a WL recently on a casual "mates" basis and after helping her fix her farkin car (she gave it back to her druggie, wife bashing hubby), shopping to help her carry things (I got PTSD vibes from my ex wives and wallet shock, plus boredom), helped her with some counselling, helped send money overseas to her family (ML ?) and yada yada yada.... plus I helped her get some violent men out of her building or apartment etc.
In the end, even though we were just mates and hadn't been sexual for months, she BURNED me and all of my trust for just one douchebag client.... one she sees maybe 1 time a month for 30 minutes.... Why, because she does this all the time.
She torched our friendship because some married asshole bad mouthed me... so the point of this rant is, even though we were just "mates" and would go to lunch etc, after a few months I worked out everything was about HER, just HER and her business and her $, and protecting her image even though she is a highly rated WL, yet a druggie and liar at the same time. Her internal protection mechanisms meant she couldn't even be a normal mate to any man.
So OP, think of a way where you could see this going forward but if you are trying to steal 2nd base, make sure you get a good farkin lead off 1st. Once you get past 1 year of this relationship you will see her true colours, most likely even after just a few months.
If you trust yourself and have a strong internal constitution then do what you want but I have been with many WL all around the world and have so many horror stories of "relationships" myself and from others that it is a "tread warily" world and expect in the end she may NEED you for something you may not be willing or able to provide or she may be so damaged from her past (she almost certainly) that a normal life is nigh on impossible.
Good Luck and remember for $350 you can get super model looking WL for an hour of groin joy, pass them back to their agent at the end of the hour and then have your "normal" and boring but very much FREE LIFE yourself.
