This is all very solid feedback, I appreciate it. Believe it or not it’s actually quite helpful. Good to have perspective from others.
Feeling rather foolish really. And not bitter at the ML at all. I still think she is sweet and is only doing her job. Just, a little too well for someone still wet behind the ears.
The experiences have been worthwhile and I’ll be a lot less naive next time.
Now, to drown my sorrows!