ML borrowed few K and disappeared /blocked me

Some guys talk during a punt and don’t punt.

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Originally Posted by Legend2000

I may fit the definition of an old farang. But that doesn’t mean it’s fair game to rip me off.

I’m always happy to pay your worth or even more when it’s transactional and thats not an issue.

This isn’t about nationality, it’s about what kind of person you are.
Some were raised with morals. Others were just taught to open their legs & smile while they drain you. That’s not survival. That’s being a parasite in cheap heels.

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can u pm me ? i had similar experience before and this is probably who ive been looking for

If there's one lesson from all of this, it's that sex work is a business. Would you lend the guy you buy tyres from several thousand dollars if he told you a sad story about his private life? No??? Then the same applies to the woman who's selling you sex.

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Originally Posted by Legend2000

Its NOT V Apple

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Are you talking about Alice? As she is the only ML that is Viet and also had a baby that I know.

Can you please PM me if it is. There are some things I would like to ask. Thanks.

This is such a depressing story. You guys are a bunch of idiots for trusting an ML. Thats the problem with you people, just because a ML or WL offers you there phone number, doesnt mean she like you. All it means is they want to milk you for more visits/money or something else and its NOT love!
Use your brains and be more smarter.
Just pay them, play with them and leave it at that. There is nothing to be gained from our side and the benefit always tilt towards their side - they will make sure of that. They are in that game and have been with more men than you been to a public toilet. Parlours and brothels aint the place to get a friend or girlfriend.

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Originally Posted by pmmeyourknee_

Never forget mate, They only see your wallet. Everything else is just a side quest to get into it. Asking your contact, asking you to come, being nice and flirty to you, complimenting you, even dating you for a bit.

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This is just a snippet. I will touch more on this topic more deeply here, Stay tune! https://www.aus99forum.com/showthrea...punters/page10

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Imagine a W/L & M/L only being with men for money. Why I'm as shocked as you are.

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Originally Posted by ColesBag

Imagine a W/L & M/L only being with men for money. Why I'm as shocked as you are.

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Here is some more bro

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Simps these days have gone nuts man. Instead of spending their money on a civvie, they'd rather take a Japanese prostitute they can't converse with out of a brothel. The irony is that a regular civilian girl would probably show more appreciation. Why is this? Is Tinder not working anymore?

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Originally Posted by justincase

Not saying it’s glamorous at all, it’s what I find interesting. My first twenty one girlfriends were blondes then I realised there are other flavours. At the time I thought blondes were the “be all and end all” of my life. Now I’d never go back to one as I see them as bland.

Anyone can have hot sex with a WL but having them as arm candy is just going that one step further. Whilst dating that Thai transsexual and taking her out there was non stop gawking by the public everywhere we went. For starters I’m twice her age and she is HOT 🔥 so everyone looked. That in itself was enough entertainment to justify the spend. Pretty much every man and every woman stared lol. It’s akin to driving a Lamborghini and everyone has to look at you at least once. So yeah I got off on it. The Lamborghini costs but when you’re driving it you don’t care…

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Paying for people to look at you is not the flex you think it is.

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Originally Posted by pmmeyourknee_

Simps these days have gone nuts man. Instead of spending their money on a civvie, they'd rather take a Japanese prostitute they can't converse with out of a brothel. The irony is that a regular civilian girl would probably show more appreciation. Why is this? Is Tinder not working anymore?

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That is brutal hahaha. I haven't seen any J girl again for a while since my last dud with one of them, not that many of them want to see me either. This just confirmed my bias. My Japanese mate did tell me that a lot of Japanese are only nice on the outside, but deep down, they are all bullies. HIS words, not mine. Don't quote me on this. I know some of them are genuinly nice, or at least I hope so. I think they are the hardest to read... With Aussies, you can tell if someone's a cunt or not within 5 secs.

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That is brutal hahaha. I haven't seen any J girl again for a while since my last dud with one of them, not that many of them want to see me either. This just confirmed my bias. My Japanese mate did tell me that a lot of Japanese are only nice on the outside, but deep down, they are all bullies. HIS words, not mine. Don't quote me on this. I know some of them are genuinly nice, or at least I hope so. I think they are the hardest to read... With Aussies, you can tell if someone's a cunt or not within 5 secs.

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This is pretty common across most the women in the industry regardless of race. Most have a list of clients or ex clients they use for money and attention.
A chinese WL I used to see in Ginza a couole years ago recently reached out to me randomly on Wechat after no contact for more than a year.
She did it while sitting across from her now husband at a restaurant 🤣 - one we previously went to together. I said I would love to see how she looks now so she sneaked a selfie of herself to me while her husband went to the toilet.
And I'm on my way now to have a coffee with her today after she drops her kid to the in laws lol. Hopefully back to mine after.

You can play with fire. Just don't be stupid and think you are actually special to her and get burnt.
After fucking them for awhile, just move onto the next one or buy them a handbag or a small lumpsum payment as a gift if you not sick of it yet want to keep getting it. Thats the only way to play it.

What’s the difference between a punter who plays around and a prostitute who plays around? The head count.

What is your largest amount you lost I have been scammed as well.

For japanese its usually the ones that acts really happy and giggly but once you leave she will feel digusted. The stories they told me how they manipluate customers where they dont even know they got scammed is kinda scary...

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Originally Posted by Paison

This is such a depressing story. You guys are a bunch of idiots for trusting an ML. Thats the problem with you people, just because a ML or WL offers you there phone number, doesnt mean she like you. All it means is they want to milk you for more visits/money or something else and its NOT love!
Use your brains and be more smarter.
Just pay them, play with them and leave it at that. There is nothing to be gained from our side and the benefit always tilt towards their side - they will make sure of that. They are in that game and have been with more men than you been to a public toilet. Parlours and brothels aint the place to get a friend or girlfriend.

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Case 1:

Have I ever loaned a WG money? Yes, she was a regular and had a compelling reason which I believed as I knew her. I loaned her $2K AUD.
Did she pay it back? She wanted to work it off weekly but I told her she needed a cash flow, so just save and pay it back lump sum. She did, New Year's Eve (clean slate for the New Year, typical).

Case 2:

Have I ever had a civilian ask me for a loan? Yes, store clerk who I chatted with every time while checking out. Said she'd be my special friend if I'd just loan her $5K. Declined. No chatting for the following month, then she was gone (home).

Moral of the stories:
1. Use some common sense (as Paison says, seems to be sorely lacking in some).

2. Don't loan money you can't afford to lose to anyone.

3. With the providers, as I've often said, you treat her like an orifice, she'll be an orifice (and chances are you'll be viewed as an ATM). Treat her like a person, she'll be a person, just like any other person (maybe Case 1, maybe Case 2; see Moral #1).

Myself, I go by character, not by profession. YMMV.

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Originally Posted by 11Bravo

3. With the providers, as I've often said, you treat her like an orifice, she'll be an orifice (and chances are you'll be viewed as an ATM). Treat her like a person, she'll be a person, just like any other person (maybe Case 1, maybe Case 2; see Moral #1).

Myself, I go by character, not by profession. YMMV.

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Wrong. No matter how nice & respectful you treat these girls, they will always see you as an ATM.

The nicer you treat them, the more they see this as weakness and the more she realizes you are a sucker she can milk money out of.

Just look at all those Old Bald Fat Farangs who lost their entire life savings to some Thai Bargirl.

Moral of the story, unless you are super handsome like Brad Pitt or Chris Hemsworth, these sex workers will never truly genuinely like you. These girls are young & hot, do you really think they will fall in love with some Middle Class Average Ass Old Bald Fat Farang....

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Originally Posted by ChadThunderrcock

Wrong. No matter how nice & respectful you treat these girls, they will always see you as an ATM.

The nicer you treat them, the more they see this as weakness and the more she realizes you are a sucker she can milk money out of

Just look at all those Old Bald Fat Farangs who lost their entire life savings to some Thai Bargirl

Moral of the story, unless you are super handsome like Brad Pitt or Chris Hemsworth, these sex workers will never truly genuinely like you. These girls are young & hot, do you really thing they will fall in love with some Middle Class average ass Old Bald Fat Farang....

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Yeah whatever he said!

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Originally Posted by ChadThunderrcock

Wrong. No matter how nice & respectful you treat these girls, they will always see you as an ATM.

The nicer you treat them, the more they see this as weakness and the more she realizes you are a sucker she can milk money out of.

Just look at all those Old Bald Fat Farangs who lost their entire life savings to some Thai Bargirl.

Moral of the story, unless you are super handsome like Brad Pitt or Chris Hemsworth, these sex workers will never truly genuinely like you. These girls are young & hot, do you really think they will fall in love with some Middle Class Average Ass Old Bald Fat Farang....

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Exactly! Thats the thing, the more nicer you are to these ML and WL, the more you get milked.
Not saying you have to be an asshole, you can still treat them normal but just need to know you aren't dealing with nornal civilians here. These women have served hundreds of men, most are so damaged that the only thing left for them is to keep up with appearances like designer items and handbags. They can live without men but just need attention and money to keep the fascade going or their fragile ego falls apart.

On another note, got lucky with the ex Chinese WL today. She didnt look as good as what her filtered Wechat pics made her out to be, definitely run down from having a child but still a good fuck regardless and all it cost me was a convo and lunch at a cafe - she actually got her husband to pick her up after I fucked her lol

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Originally Posted by Becareful

For japanese its usually the ones that acts really happy and giggly but once you leave she will feel digusted. The stories they told me how they manipluate customers where they dont even know they got scammed is kinda scary...

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So true. Once you see how they actually are, it really changes how you look at them. The more friendly, bubbly, and giggly they act, the more it turns me off. No kidding. Funny how their hostess tactics backfire on me now

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Originally Posted by Paison

Exactly! Thats the thing, the more nicer you are to these ML and WL, the more you get milked.
Not saying you have to be an asshole, you can still treat them normal but just need to know you aren't dealing with nornal civilians here. These women have served hundreds of men, most are so damaged that the only thing left for them is to keep up with appearances like designer items and handbags. They can live without men but just need attention and money to keep the fascade going or their fragile ego falls apart.

On another note, got lucky with the ex Chinese WL today. She didnt look as good as what her filtered Wechat pics made her out to be, definitely run down from having a child but still a good fuck regardless and all it cost me was a convo and lunch at a cafe - she actually got her husband to pick her up after I fucked her lol

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Truer words have never been spoken. This forum could use more of your wisdom.
Also what a chad, massive respect :shout:

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Originally Posted by Paison

Exactly! Thats the thing, the more nicer you are to these ML and WL, the more you get milked.
Not saying you have to be an asshole, you can still treat them normal but just need to know you aren't dealing with nornal civilians here. These women have served hundreds of men, most are so damaged that the only thing left for them is to keep up with appearances like designer items and handbags. They can live without men but just need attention and money to keep the fascade going or their fragile ego falls apart.

On another note, got lucky with the ex Chinese WL today. She didnt look as good as what her filtered Wechat pics made her out to be, definitely run down from having a child but still a good fuck regardless and all it cost me was a convo and lunch at a cafe - she actually got her husband to pick her up after I fucked her lol

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So you're happy to keep "damaging" these girls for your personal pleasure?

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So you're happy to keep "damaging" these girls for your personal pleasure?

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It’s not my fault they’re damaged, thats the path they chosen. If they’re selling sex and calling it empowerment, own it - don’t blame the client.

Most of them get so jaded from pleasing that many men with their bodies, they start calling themselves 'independent' - while living off men’s money. Check any OnlyFans or escort private IG, it’s always in the bio

It’s like the ex WL I saw yesterday, kept saying husband doesn't take good care of her - all the while he is working he's ass off to support her and the kid.
While she randomly reaches out to her ex clients like me - chasing the thrill and attention. While I just blow smoke up her ass telling her she is still as beautiful as ever and a strong mother. Its all a game - just dont be the one who gets played.

Real men see through the fasçade, recognize the pattern, and walk away without looking back while simps hang around throwing money at broken pussy.

For all the men in this thread who got ripped. Just move on and be smarter next time.

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Originally Posted by Paison

It’s not my fault they’re damaged, thats the path they chosen. If they’re selling sex and calling it empowerment, own it - don’t blame the client.

Most of them get so jaded from pleasing that many men with their bodies, they start calling themselves 'independent' - while living off men’s money. Check any OnlyFans or escort private IG, it’s always in the bio

It’s like the ex WL I saw yesterday, kept saying husband doesn't take good care of her - all the while he is working he's ass off to support her and the kid.
While she randomly reaches out to her ex clients like me - chasing the thrill and attention. While I just blow smoke up her ass telling her she is still as beautiful as ever and a strong mother. Its all a game - just dont be the one who gets played.

Real men see through the fasçade, recognize the pattern, and walk away without looking back while simps hang around throwing money at broken pussy.

For all the men in this thread who got ripped. Just move on and be smarter next time.

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Yep you sound like a "real man" if that means not giving a shit about people. But what the hell is a fascade?

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Originally Posted by Paison

It’s not my fault they’re damaged, thats the path they chosen. If they’re selling sex and calling it empowerment, own it - don’t blame the client.

Most of them get so jaded from pleasing that many men with their bodies, they start calling themselves 'independent' - while living off men’s money. Check any OnlyFans or escort private IG, it’s always in the bio

It’s like the ex WL I saw yesterday, kept saying husband doesn't take good care of her - all the while he is working he's ass off to support her and the kid.
While she randomly reaches out to her ex clients like me - chasing the thrill and attention. While I just blow smoke up her ass telling her she is still as beautiful as ever and a strong mother. Its all a game - just dont be the one who gets played.

Real men see through the fasçade, recognize the pattern, and walk away without looking back while simps hang around throwing money at broken pussy.

For all the men in this thread who got ripped. Just move on and be smarter next time.

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You should of let the husband know. It's fucked up. He should be given a chance to leave her.

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Originally Posted by Paison

Most of them get so jaded from pleasing that many men with their bodies, they start calling themselves 'independent' - while living off men’s money. Check any OnlyFans or escort private IG, it’s always in the bio

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Whose money do you live off?