Finding a wife partner in a shop

A lot of posts on this forum say punters promise the world to a WL but never deliver. Are there any stories of punters delivering?

Here’s a question.

Why wouldn’t a WL want to be in a relationship with a punter? From their side, what stops them?

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Originally Posted by Vincent888

Here’s a question.

Why wouldn’t a WL want to be in a relationship with a punter? From their side, what stops them?

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Nice question.
Divorce rates (rates vary according to length of marriage)
1st marriage - 50% (40%)
2nd marriage - 65%
Mixed marriages - 40%
Divorce rate with an ML - odds don’t look good.

Note - most of the MLs are Asian so communication is a problem - and even then with a translator you’re back to the “basics” due to the cultural gaps and nuances of the Aussie culture.

Note any ethic group gravitates to the their own ethnic group. Current MLs have extensive ML networks that they remain attached to. How does the song go “always something there to remind me”.

How do you accommodate the past sexual history - HJ, BJ, FS - so for each year of service - 2000/1500/500 - your guess as good as mine!!

An ML is probably supporting an extended family and may want to import family etc

Complexities of life are tenuous at best in a perfect relationship and I guess many here would attest to that - otherwise they would not be here punting and posting in these forums.

And I guess there are those that just survive in a marriage.

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Originally Posted by Vincent888

Here’s a question.

Why wouldn’t a WL want to be in a relationship with a punter? From their side, what stops them?

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Would you play poker with all the cards open on the table?

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Originally Posted by GoldfishMan

Would you play poker with all the cards open on the table?

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Nice reflection - especially if the cards are all Jokers

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Originally Posted by GoldfishMan

Would you play poker with all the cards open on the table?

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I thought we all held our cards close?

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Originally Posted by Timeis629

Nice question.
Divorce rates (rates vary according to length of marriage)
1st marriage - 50% (40%)
2nd marriage - 65%
Mixed marriages - 40%
Divorce rate with an ML - odds don’t look good.

Note - most of the MLs are Asian so communication is a problem - and even then with a translator you’re back to the “basics” due to the cultural gaps and nuances of the Aussie culture.

Note any ethic group gravitates to the their own ethnic group. Current MLs have extensive ML networks that they remain attached to. How does the song go “always something there to remind me”.

How do you accommodate the past sexual history - HJ, BJ, FS - so for each year of service - 2000/1500/500 - your guess as good as mine!!

An ML is probably supporting an extended family and may want to import family etc

Complexities of life are tenuous at best in a perfect relationship and I guess many here would attest to that - otherwise they would not be here punting and posting in these forums.

And I guess there are those that just survive in a marriage.

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Regarding divorce rates. I’ve noticed it is intergenerational. For example if the grandparents get divorced then their children tend to have divorces and their grandchildren also. I’ve even seen people get married and predicted a future divorce and I’ve seen it come to fruition. The last time was because the husband openly played around. Loose lips sink ships and he went down like the titanic.

Ethnicity is also another disrupter. That needs no extrapolation.

We all have a past sexual history. Maybe not on as big a scale as some WL’s but it’s still there.

As regards supporting an extended family. That comes with the territory and compassion for other people goes a long way. Like I’ve said in another post. My mate paid for a village bridge to be constructed in Burma. It was no skin off his nose either.

There are those that only just survive in anything they do, not just marriage.

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Originally Posted by Vincent888

I thought we all held our cards close?

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Exactly. There's no point in playing the game if all everyone's cards are known. It becomes a game of pure luck.

It's the same thing with dating a WL. The moment you met her in that setting, all notion of a normal relationship would've gone out the window. You both know each other's secrets and perhaps more importantly, you each know that the other party has that knowledge. Game over before you even started.

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Originally Posted by GoldfishMan

Exactly. There's no point in playing the game if all everyone's cards are known. It becomes a game of pure luck.

It's the same thing with dating a WL. The moment you met her in that setting, all notion of a normal relationship would've gone out the window. You both know each other's secrets and perhaps more importantly, you each know that the other party has that knowledge. Game over before you even started.

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That’s just it. It’s basically smoke and mirrors on both sides till one gets serious. Usually the punter. Does any punter ever reveal the truth?

Maybe it should be show me a card and I’ll show you one of mine. I don’t see anyone laying out a full hand on either side. Why would they? It’s too risky for any number of reasons.

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Originally Posted by GoldfishMan

You both know each other's secrets and perhaps more importantly, You each know that the other party has that knowledge. Game over before you even started.

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I never thought about it that way, very well said
She also knows how to rock my socks off and that’s why I go back!!

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Originally Posted by RO1312

I never thought about it that way, very well said
She also knows how to rock my socks off and that’s why I go back!!

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That’s a sex secret and probably if you have a parter one that you might not share with?

But what about the punters real life, the life outside the massage shop or brothel?

What about those secrets?

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Originally Posted by Vincent888

That’s a sex secret and probably if you have a parter one that you might not share with?

But what about the punters real life, the life outside the massage shop or brothel?

What about those secrets?

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I am single, but I still like to keep it to myself. Play time and personal life must be kept well apart from each other. That’s a no brainer

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Originally Posted by RO1312

I am single, but I still like to keep it to myself. Play time and personal life must be kept well apart from each other. That’s a no brainer

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Do you boast about it to your mates?

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Originally Posted by Vincent888

Do you boast about it to your mates?

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It depends on how fucked up you are. One of my mates is a punter and I tell him everything I do, but he has a limit on what he tells me cos he’s into some fucked up shit that he won’t share. The furthest he told me is that he’s got a mental problem and must play out his fantasies. He can’t do it here in Oz so he travels every few months to Thailand and Vietnam and does it there.

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Originally Posted by Ghost2hauntU

It depends on how fucked up you are. One of my mates is a punter and I tell him everything I do, but he has a limit on what he tells me cos he’s into some fucked up shit that he won’t share. The furthest he told me is that he’s got a mental problem and must play out his fantasies. He can’t do it here in Oz so he travels every few months to Thailand and Vietnam and does it there.

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A surgeon I was talking to this week brought up mental health. It was a discussion about life in general. She told me a lot of people have issues.

I thought life’s good, why bring up the topic?

Obviously things around her are not so good.

You never know what the person next to you is going through. Another guy I crossed paths with for a while this year was an “A grade asshole”. Not to me but just to business in general. I kept thinking what’s his problem. It got to the stage where I thought to stay away from him.

Anyhow next interaction he tells me he has ADHD and is now on medication and he’s a completely different person. So nice now.

In the past mental health issues were not discussed.

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Originally Posted by Lanky69

I am curious has anyone got the feeling with some of these girls that they like you so much that they are
Interested in a life long partner places like massage shops etc as I have come across that trying not to get too much emotionally involved

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I'm not sure if I'm the only one who has experienced this, but it is definitely something to be aware of. It can be difficult, because you don't want to lead someone on or hurt their feelings in any way. On the other hand, if you feel like there is a genuine connection and that both parties would benefit from a long-term relationship

The number of Australians being prescribed medication for attention deficit hyperactivity disorder has more than doubled in five years, with new figures showing more than 400,000 people now take drugs for the common neurodevelopmental disorder as awareness rises among doctors and the public.

https://www.smh.com.au/politics/fede...09-p5eaun.html.

Is it being over diagnosed? Is this a new trend? I think we are all somewhere in the spectrum but not sure if prescribing medication is the answer.

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Originally Posted by Vincent888

A surgeon I was talking to this week brought up mental health. It was a discussion about life in general. She told me a lot of people have issues.

I thought life’s good, why bring up the topic?

Obviously things around her are not so good.

You never know what the person next to you is going through. Another guy I crossed paths with for a while this year was an “A grade asshole”. Not to me but just to business in general. I kept thinking what’s his problem. It got to the stage where I thought to stay away from him.

Anyhow next interaction he tells me he has ADHD and is now on medication and he’s a completely different person. So nice now.

In the past mental health issues were not discussed.

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Very interesting Vincent. I also have a friend who was diagnosed with ADHD as an adult. Not sure if those medications can affect the body though

i do attracted to some of these WL especially those owner but nothing more than fuck...married is a no but in alternative universe where i'm rich as those athletics then could see my self having relationship with benefits.,,by saying that gonna be wise won't bankrupt myself.

some really open up about being SB even few that is not WL..

Finding a partner in a shop.

It was in the bottle shop. She had gotten into the Sepelts para port and had drunk half a flagon. That’s where I found her, crashed out behind the cheap wine section.

I found her and left her there.