I think i'm addicted to punting.

OK, I will have a crack at answering these honestly.

1. Did you ever lose time from work or school due to punting? Yes.
2. Has punting ever made your home life unhappy? Yes, but not for decades.
3. Did punting affect your reputation? No.
4. Have you ever felt remorse after punting? Not really, maybe a little in the beginning.
5. N/A
6. Did punting cause a decrease in your ambition or efficiency? No.
7. After an average or bad punt did you feel you must return as soon as possible to make up for it? No.
8. After a winfall did you have a strong urge to go punting? No.
9. Did you punt until your last available money was gone? No.
10. Did you ever borrow to finance your punting? No.
11. Have you ever sold anything to finance punting? No.
12. Were you reluctant to use "punting money" for normal expenditures? No.
13. Did punting make you careless of the welfare of yourself or your family? No.
14. Did you ever punt longer than you had planned? Yes, often.
15. Have you ever punt to escape worry, trouble, boredom, loneliness, grief or loss? No, except for my first punt - that's how my punting started.
16. Have you ever committed, or considered committing, an illegal act to finance punting? No.
17. Did punting cause you to have difficulty in sleeping? No. Sometimes the opposite in fact.
18. Do arguments, disappointments or frustrations create within you an urge to punt? No.
19. Did you ever have an urge to celebrate any good fortune by having a punt? No
20. Have you ever considered self-destruction or suicide as a result of your punting? No, certainly not.

I started punting before most of you guys were born I would venture to say. I do so because I love the variety.
For massage I love trying new shops, always looking for +++ service. For FS shops, I tend to stick to the few
that I know well although I am open to change.

So am I addicted? I don't think so but I am no psychologist.

WayneK.

No.17 yes- I can't stopped thinking of her when I meet a very pretty girl nd we connected!
Usually lasted strongly for few days then after the second nd third times then it faded away slowly till I meet new girls again nd it starrt all over agsin :smile:

That's how I keep on punting it's a good feeling but it can also stress u out as well.

OK so Punterman will take the test.

1. Did you ever lose time from work or school due to punting? yes plenty
2. Has punting ever made your home life unhappy? Never
3. Did punting affect your reputation ? Not really sure what that means but I would say no
4. Have you ever felt remorse after punting? Not very often. Only about the money, not the punting
5. N/A
6. Did punting cause a decrease in your ambition or efficiency? No
7. After an average or bad punt did you feel you must return as soon as possible to make up for it? Yes
8. After a winfall did you have a strong urge to go punting? Yes
9. Did you punt until your last available money was gone? no
10. Did you ever borrow to finance your punting? no
11. Have you ever sold anything to finance punting? no
12. Were you reluctant to use "punting money" for normal expenditures? Yes
13. Did punting make you careless of the welfare of yourself or your family ? Yes to a degree as you are cheating on them
14. Did you ever punt longer than you had planned? yes
15. Have you ever punt to escape worry, trouble, boredom, loneliness, grief or loss? yes
16. Have you ever committed, or considered committing, an illegal act to finance punting? no
17. Did punting cause you to have difficulty in sleeping? no
18. Do arguments, disappointments or frustrations create within you an urge to punt? No
19. Did you ever have an urge to celebrate any good fortune by having a punt? not really
20. Have you ever considered self-destruction or suicide as a result of your punting? No

Some of those questions seem harsh but if can say yes to 4 of them or more, chances are you are in the grip of a punting problem or dare i say an addiction. i easily answered yes to more than 4 and i am not what you would call a 'heavy' punter.[/QUOTE]

Those questions are just a guide and i re-worded them to relate to punting. Ultimately it is the punter that has to make the decision that punting and to a greater extent 'sex' is creating problems in their lives.

i would guess the vast majority of punters are okay, even those punting a lot. By no means am I saying it is bad or people shouldn't punt, just don't let it control our lives. So many good girls and times to be had and life is short! There are also lots of other truly wonderful things we can do, even in our everyday lives!

Perhaps making some slight adjustments if you feel it is getting out of hand like taking up other hobbies and stick to your punting plan/budget. perhaps some can spend their $150 or $240 on a therapist or counsellor next time instead of a punt, just to be able to talk with a professional about it. Apart from here, most punters don't have any outlet to talk about punting at a truly peraonal level.

Arigato
Addiction is easy to know
If it interrupt your daily life
If it interrupt your other habit
It it is priority planning your life around your addiction
Then needing help before the disaster
Can you stop for one day
Can you stop for one week
An you stop for one month
If no then Yes
Addiction

I’m in trouble lol

Is there are group called punters anonymous

nah but there is Sex Addicts Anonymous. i dare suspect you would find punters there. They have these 12 questions to help you determine if you are a 'sex addict'.

http://www.saa-sydney.org/am-i-a-sex-addict

Thanks Raybo
Interesting read

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nah but there is Sex Addicts Anonymous. i dare suspect you would find punters there. They have these 12 questions to help you determine if you are a 'sex addict'.

http://www.saa-sydney.org/am-i-a-sex-addict

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Thanks Raybo
Interesting read

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questions 1, 3, 4, 5, 8, 10 and 11 really make me think........but answering yes to one apparently makes me a potential candidate.

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questions 1, 3, 4, 5, 8, 10 and 11 really make me think........but answering yes to one apparently makes me a potential candidate.

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Apparently the first part of recovery is admitting your are a addict
I’m not ready to that
Having to much fun

If you follow the test every dick and harry will be having sex addiction. We are all human being man and woman think of sex. If we don't think of sex we won't get married and have children. Is just how much sex you need each day or week that determines if you are a sex addicts. If you don't have self control than you might be a sex addicts.

Most of the questions would be a yes from me but I don't think I'm addicted.

I would punt less than a golfing tragic would ruin a good walk.

And waynekerr unless you started punting before 77 you wouldn't pre date me...ahhh the memories of being milked for the check prior to BBFS with creampie...now that's the good ol days you young whipper snapper (now I need a swig of me rheumatis medicine).

Get a gf and a side chcik hahahahaha

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And waynekerr unless you started punting before 77 you wouldn't pre date me...ahhh the memories of being milked for the check prior to BBFS with creampie...now that's the good ol days you young whipper snapper (now I need a swig of me rheumatis medicine).

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Sadly I pre-date you by a good few years (sob). By 1977 I was a well seasoned punter and yes they certainly
were good days.

I mentioned being a long time punter in my post to show that despite this I still feel that punting for me is not
an addiction but more of a pastime. Hope we are both still punting for a long while yet.

WayneK.

You're not alone man...
I'm punting 1-2 times a week
Because my income is not a big money
The problem is when im stress or happy
I'm always going to brothel
Some like ginza, or sometime going to cheap brothel where i have good relationship with my regular
But its better than gambling, i spent more than 6k only in 3-4 months, when my income is 1k a week (before pay my Bill)

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Im an addict also, I punt when im happy, i punt when im depress, and i punt when im bored, the point is i always find a reason to punt, its never enough, and i've been doing this for over 10yrs, while im in a relationship,Yes its an expensive problem, but i rather punt than gamble at the casino or take drugs. on average i punt 3 or 4 times per week also, bestofmyworld bro, i dont think you can stop punting, ever !!!

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I am in the exact same boat as you. I'm not seeing new girls as I like to see my regulars but still, I'm going around 3 - 4 times per week. I'm not saying I'm rich or anything, just that I can punt when I want. But yeah, punting is bloody addictive.

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I am in the exact same boat as you. I'm not seeing new girls as I like to see my regulars but still, I'm going around 3 - 4 times per week. I'm not saying I'm rich or anything, just that I can punt when I want. But yeah, punting is bloody addictive.

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You're seeing the same girls but is it because you're physically attracted to them or their personalised service? Sometimes girls will give their contact details to draw you in. In most cases, there is a financial motive. It's not because they like you but they want to keep you as a regular customer so beware. Hopefully, you will see the benefits of seeing other girls.