Dating a ML - share some stories!!

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Originally Posted by domo

I may have Junkyard, I may have...

It also disheartens me on how many 'clients' negotiate for a deal and then not paying before or after as well as the 'clients' that don't ask for permission yet have their way with them :'(. I wonder if the shops have a list of black listed 'clients' for bad behavior or something.

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Well said!

Exactly the reason why 227 Broadway now only has inclusive prices, all paid up front!

While most clients are good men and honest gentlemen , it's a very small percentage of jerks that put the MLs in high alert!

Another reason why clients who paid the tips before hand are so much more welcomed !

Treat them well !

Cheers

Love from a massage shop:
http://www.smh.com.au/national/cultu...27-gl9xv3.html

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Originally Posted by aussiegaigin

Love from a massage shop:
http://www.smh.com.au/national/cultu...27-gl9xv3.html

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Nice story, just wondering how long it actually took before Lindsay gets his part II ?

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Originally Posted by AHLUNGOR

Nice story, just wondering how long it actually took before Lindsay gets his part II ?

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Don't jump to conclusions bro A; it was a "therapeutic massage clinic".
Anyway good luck to them both ...

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Originally Posted by rooter

Don't jump to conclusions bro A; it was a "therapeutic massage clinic".
Anyway good luck to them both ...

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I know I know, that's why I said how long ?

If it was a RnT , the answer will be 15-20 min and I knew the answer , no need to ask !


Ps. All my favourite massage shops are therapeutic massage clinics too ! And the MLs are all therapists ! Technicians and beauticians !

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Originally Posted by z3335526

Lads,

I want to get your knowledge on the pros and cons of dating a ML. Share some cool stories and if you enjoyed the experience.

What would your tips in knowing when to ask a ML out.

I had a short experience a while back with an older woman a while back. I guess my brief tips would be

1. Don't expect her to give up her job for you straightaway. MLs make a decent wage doing their job so if you're not going to marry her, then don't expect her to give up her job.

2. Try and show how you're different to other lads. I'm certain we would all want to tldate a particular ML at some point in time. Therefore, you need to showcase your strengths to the ML and why you're a better match

3. Don't expect a long relationship. I have no solid reasons for this but I assume that these relationships are difficult to maintain

Would love to hear your stories. Some of you have some fantastic insights and experiences

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What youre trying to say are correct. I agreed, but I expect a long relationship:)

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Originally Posted by NaughtyBoy13

What youre trying to say are correct. I agreed, but I expect a long relationship:)

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if you're expecting a long relationship then you're looking in the wrong place.

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Originally Posted by Azzkikr

if you're expecting a long relationship then you're looking in the wrong place.

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I understand what you mean. But I believe there is an exception:)

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Originally Posted by garfield

It will be hard to give up once you've tasted the fruits. But your understanding is correct, so be wise.

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You are absolulately right , I insist paying no matter what .

Once you forget that this is just a transaction then you're on your way to serious trouble....

So I just got a contact of a WL and we're meeting up soon. This is a first for me and I've read it always ends bad but I figure I'll go enjoy the meet up and see what happens...

Any tips or pointers from others who have gone through this?

I see people say to be upfront straight away but how do you go about this? Just ask and be blunt?

Punting is all about yourself. It should start and end with it all about being yourself.
Do not try and make it about the ML or WL.
Do not think that there are exceptions to this rule... there is not.
You will learn the easy way or the hard way.... none of these girls need saving or need you.
They have made their choice and get just as much thrill from punting us as we do them. FULL STOP.
Meeting them away from work is fine.... just never pay for it.

Ive been dated with a WL for about 3-4 months.

She has never asked me for money. Going out for lunch or dinner, movies... She also wants to pay for herself, but I said "no" ! I would pay for it as a man. And she said that she would like to travel to Hobart. Oh, Id love to visit Hobart, too !

So we set up a date to visit Hobart during Christmas time. Travelled around, party at night with sea foods, wines and sex :) Of course I paid for everything but sex is unpaid, lol

Wow, I have never had such a great time in my life like that ! It was incredible! We trusted each others, so we always have bareback sex. We broke up 2 months later, and she went back to her country.

No love between us. But for myself I truely wish to have a wife like her ! :) All the great moments would stay in mah mind 4ever ! Really miss her sometimes...

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Originally Posted by BBBJ

Punting is all about yourself. It should start and end with it all about being yourself.
Do not try and make it about the ML or WL.
Do not think that there are exceptions to this rule... there is not.
You will learn the easy way or the hard way.... none of these girls need saving or need you.
They have made their choice and get just as much thrill from punting us as we do them. FULL STOP.
Meeting them away from work is fine.... just never pay for it.

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Couldn't agree more with such a succinct summary!

I feel really sorry for z3335526 after reading his story, as I've gone thru something similar myself, though I wasn't that deep into it and got out early.

One thing I learned was that these girls are under tremendous pressures in life: making ends meet, school assignments, job at the parlor, other jobs, makeup/clothes, dreams/fears about the future, visa issues, boyfriends, customers, friends at school, family blah, blah. So their emotions change almost every hour. Some of them might have a clear vision of where they are going, and can balance these shifting elements relatively well, and if you happen to become a friend of such a ML, it's going to be a lot easier. But this type of ML is a minority, I'd say. The majority of them have trouble in this chaos, and customers who want to befriend them privately by sending text messages or calling only add to the confusion.

My take on their nice behavior in the shop is that they simply want to keep more options open, no more, no less.

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Originally Posted by BBBJ

Punting is all about yourself. It should start and end with it all about being yourself.
Do not try and make it about the ML or WL.
Do not think that there are exceptions to this rule... there is not.
You will learn the easy way or the hard way.... none of these girls need saving or need you.
They have made their choice and get just as much thrill from punting us as we do them. FULL STOP.
Meeting them away from work is fine.... just never pay for it.

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I must have missed this post from a few day ago.

100% agree. It sums it up perfectly.

It's interesting reading the lengths other punters will go to grow the business transaction into something more. Some seem to be lucky and for them the ML show genuine interest but mostly, I think they are playing along with the fantasy for financial gain.

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Originally Posted by blanet

It's interesting reading the lengths other punters will go to grow the business transaction into something more. Some seem to be lucky and for them the ML show genuine interest but mostly, I think they are playing along with the fantasy for financial gain.

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So true, and the emotional pain is probably much worse than the financial damage.

I suppose some people confuse lust with their need for affection. It's a service transaction, no different than being served a cup of coffee or getting your hair cut.

The moment you see it as something more than that you make yourself vulnerable, and a clever and enterprising ML/WL will sniff that out like a wild boar does a truffle...

As a rule, I don't date MLs or see them outside the shop.

There's a ton of reasons for that but the main ones are

- I would never want an ML to know my real identity
- it's too complicated and you're playing with fire
- The whole fantasy of her may come crashing down
- I'd want her to quit her job straight away, which she wouldn't do
- Many of them can't be trusted and know how to manipulate you
- I'd rather date regular girls because I can always 'see the MLs in the shop'

If you want to start something with a nice girl, why not choose a nice, regular girl?

Some gorgeous MLs have given me their numbers, invited me to their home etc (I could drop some pretty big names here but I won't for privacy reasons). But I don't go through with it.

Although if I really fall for an ML, who knows?

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Originally Posted by SON OF MAX

Is it just me or do others here think that this guy is full of shit? The amount of time you spend digging up old threads and replying to them with bullshit stories, you wouldn't have time to go out on a date with a ML, even if you could get a date.

You are very big with your stories but when it comes to details you hide behind legal reason,privacy reason etc etc which leads me to believe they are just that, stories made up by your imagination. You claimed to have visited a shop that was closed down earlier that day but when you're asked to name the shop you claim you can't due to legal reasons lol.......... Bro, you do know that this forum is for sharing FACTS and OPINIONS right? Bullshit is generally not cool

I'm sure that a lot of bros here have dated ML/WL, but the ones that actually have don't come on here and try to brag about it. Why would they?

Anyway, I'm willing to bet $$$ that you are full of shit. PM me some details, just one name and proof. How about a $1000 bet? I'll meet you at any shop in the cbd and you show me the proof and the cash is yours. I'll even pay for you to have a 1 hour session at the shop

By the way, how did HereticMessiah get banned and you slipped through the cracks?

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Dear SOM,

I actually kind of like it when you don't believe me! Its kind of flattering in a way, like when some kids at school used to think I cheated when doing some projects etc, claiming it 'couldn't be done' by a kid! Although in this case, I think a lot of punters can pull numbers etc, it's not really a big deal

Here's some answers to some of your questions, after which I will never again respond to you and your constant need to troll everyone

1) Why I didn't give the details of a shop due to legal reasons - there was set to be a legal court case planned this year against the shop, which will include evidence gathered from punters etc

2) Why I spend so much time digging up old threads - I wish I had joined this site years ago, so I check out the old threads I've missed. Plus, am bored at work etc.

3) Why I didn't give MLs names due to privacy - for their privacy, and for my own privacy (anonymity)

4) I continue to be on this site - because admin can clearly see that I am genuinely trying to contribute to this website! (Unlike yourself who just tries to be cynical and stir up trouble - a troll!). I just wrote a huge essay on trying to help punters who are addicted - what have you done lately other than irritate other users?

5) Why I am telling the truth - because why the f%^k would I bother to set up "multiple " accounts on a website which is anonymous in the first place, and write imaginary stories on it!! WHY??

6) Why I won't take your offer of the bet - again, anonymity is the most important thing to me, and so I don't want to be identified by anyone on this site. Even though I'd love to take your money.

7) If you are wrong, and I am in fact a) Neither HM or Jellyshots , and b) truthful in the things I write here - will you admit that you would be a total CHODE?? Id love for you to admit to this!

8) I've dealt with guys like you before - at uni, a lot of guys who didn't get girls wouldn't want to accept that other people did! I know it hurts, but get over it! If you put as much time into learning pickup as you do into attacking people online, you'd be the one writing how you're getting MLs numbers!

9) I will no longer respond to you