Thanks for your concern.
I saw only one ML because of consistency of service and party laziness to meet new girls. Definitely not to "fall in love". :)
I do know sticking with one girl has it's pros and cons.
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i feel like the more you see your regulars, the lazier there service starts getting.
im not looking for relationship. i just wanna have a good time.
Agree with Zoozilla about spreading your eggs. Reaps the extras that some intimacy with a semi regular girl brings, but keep the variety to keep in interesting.
I've had regulars where the sessions certainly improved the more I saw them, and others that kind of reached a point and then laziness crept in. One girl used to like to role play. Towards the end her favourite game became "sexy librarian" which is where I wasn't allowed to talk while she read a book... (joke obviously, she read her phone...)
A regular works for me. It' been about 4 years now and the rapport and trust is excellent. I really enjoy it and i think she does too. FS in a massage shop works for me far better than the existential angst of a brothel. Call me weird. I think the key is genuine respect...and $100 tip vs $50. Ha! Once a week except period week which is when i see my other regular. And the occasional mid-weeker just for the thrill of something new. We msg back and forth and i give (and get) birthday and xmas gifts. It's really sweet.
And that's as close to dating as you should get with a ML or WL.
Anything else is madness. Think it through.
If she's no longer working in the industry, because *love*, muggins (you) is supporting her.
If she's still working, you're dick no 5/6/7 at the end of her day.
If she's here on a student visa, are you her partner...or PR ticket?
She's had multiple white knights fall for her; are you really the only boyfriend?
She's young, and wealthy, good looking men tell her she's beautiful every single day. Are you a rock star with a big dick and bigger wallet? Because if you ain't...there's a better prospect than you, every single day.
If you're twice her age...what will you actually talk about after week two?
If you're her age and thinking marriage, kids, family unit... well, maybe and good luck to you young fella. I love an optimist.
Otherwise pays your money, have your fun, hang out with your mates.
Yeah, it’s more complicated and difficult to prove a genuine feeling/relationship. All will be blurred by her works and bunch of guys around her. Will be hard to believe that she likes you not because of your money or seeing you as PR tickets, or even your dick size (actually we all think size is important but many girls say not really true). Some girls actually just look for “normal” things that make them feel comfortable/peaceful when they’re with you. Like most of them can afford dinners so actually they just need someone to enjoy times with. Not at the time guys need to be handsome with thick wallets, but an arm that the girls can rest on. What they need is sometimes a guy who makes them feel normal after work, or keep them away from nightmares
There's something to be said, though, for a regular who knows your body, who's comfortable with you, and lets you explore just that little bit more.
I stray from my regulars often because i'm a hopeless slut, but i've discovered that, by and large, the grass isn't that much greener that often.
There's something to be said, though, for a regular who knows your body, who's comfortable with you, and lets you explore just that little bit more.
I stray from my regulars often because i'm a hopeless slut, but i've discovered that, by and large, the grass isn't that much greener that often.
It’s bad if you read ar of them. Not only feel jealous but also lose your confidence. Starting to compare to the ppl they see then think you’re not good enough. What you do is not special but actually you’re just a newbie while they’re experts and get experiences with experts. It kills the mood.
Dont do it.
When she's at work all you will think about is if she's got a cock in her mouth, being spreadeagled, or getting covered in jizz
Just find a normal girl, no need to date WL.
Thinking of it is so sexy your girl is been played by many guys everyday while you are hard at work/home
and thinking how she is been fuck. Wait till you saw her reviews from guys play her 1 to 2 time and she Cim and suck till last drop with a smile. Wait till you text her and she haven't replied your text for few hours. Later say she was very busy with customer.
If you think is sexy go a head and but some boyfriend likes it.
IMHO, this kind of relationship is difficult to cope with, but no need to be cynical like this. It might be hard, but doesn't mean it's wrong, and they're wrong to love each other. I don't admire, but feel for wls. It's their works, a very hard work, and we don't know the stories behind why they choose it. And it doesn't mean wls don't deserve a happy and genuine relationship. They have their pain, and would love someone who can understand their choices, who can love their scars, their pain and still respect them. And the men who love them are really strong men, with good heart and generous to get through hard times with them. Hard but beautiful that wls can have their lovers to tell them that "I'm here for you".
Someone you dont love, sure, but as a serious relationship with someone you love? I completely agree. every night unable to sleep cos youre waiting for her to come home, knowing what she's doing to who can imagine the 4am punter rolling in drunk, off chops, raging to hammer out some frustration.. who then extends into the daylight.. Every 100 she pulls out is another cock that shes swallowed, and another guy that had her while you didnt...Too tired to fuck when she gets home, or on her days off cos shes done it all week (without you) .. Then rush her to work for a morning booking cos she slept in.... the list goes on .. and on...
Its shit for her too, but she has to.....
If its at all avoidable, run..
If its true love... well.. unless you can get her out.. its gonna be bumpy ride
I think something sums up this relationship... only works for those who enjoy getting cucked!!
You've gotta be either a cad or a cuck :)