Going out with ml/wl

I've made friends with girls who quit working as WL/ML and those who are still in the industry, for those who still work as WL/ML I put boundaries in place where I don't involve money with each other, don't see them at their work & no sex. They tell me stories on how their work is at the shop and I share my shop adventure stories.

For girls who quit the industry then we don't discuss to our mutual friends how we met, some of the girls find a guy for a Visa or have a genuine relationship they don't want an ex customer causing drama for them.

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Originally Posted by Footballpunter

yikes, is it me or is sending flowers to a shop kinda cringy? I wouldn't mind sending flowers to a girl's office, but the shop, I'm not sure about that one.

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You can't get much cringier...

It’s weird… we meet in these bizarre intimate situations, but both sides probably look down on the other? It’s all very hypocritical…

Fuck im enjoying this thread! It's definitely putting everything into perspective for me, especially if I am starting to get a little too close to these girls. I have had a couple of relationships with ML and it has never gone well for me. Actually it's nearly done my head in haha!!
I just follow the golden 3 F rules now and enjoy a much better life.
Find them
Fuck them
Forget them!!!!

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Originally Posted by AJJ

Fuck im enjoying this thread! It's definitely putting everything into perspective for me, especially if I am starting to get a little too close to these girls. I have had a couple of relationships with ML and it has never gone well for me. Actually it's nearly done my head in haha!!
I just follow the golden 3 F rules now and enjoy a much better life.
Find them
Fuck them
Forget them!!!!

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Then every now and then one comes along that you cannot forget

You wouldn’t be human if you didn’t get a bit too attached at times lads….

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Originally Posted by bung72

You wouldn’t be human if you didn’t get a bit too attached at times lads….

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Some of us have been super humans at times. I am more than happy I am no longer one

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Originally Posted by BDU

Then every now and then one comes along that you cannot forget

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(Turn around)
Every now and then
I get a little bit lonely
And you're never coming 'round

(Turn around)
Every now and then
I get a little bit tired
Of listening to the sound of my tears

(Turn around)
Every now and then
I get a little bit nervous
That the best of all the years have gone by

(Turn around)
Every now and then
I get a little bit terrified
And then I see the look in your eyes

(Turn around, bright eyes)
Every now and then I fall apaaaaart
(Turn around, bright eyes)
Every now and then
I fall apaaaaaaaart

And I need you now tonight
And I need you more than ever
And if you only hold me tight
We'll be holding on forever
And we'll only be making it right
'Cause we'll never be wrong

Together we can take it to the end of the line
Your love is like a shadow on me all of the time

I don't know what to do and I'm always in the dark
We're living in a powder keg and giving off sparks

I really need you tonight
Forever's gonna start tonight
Forever's gonna start tonight

Once upon a time I was falling in love
But now I'm only falling apart
There's nothing I can do
A total eclipse of the heeewAAAAAAart

Once upon a time there was light in my life
But now there's only love in the dark
Nothing I can say
A total eclipse of the heeeeeeeaaaaaaart

Sorry, little karaoke interlude. That song instantly came to.mind when I read "every now and then"...


Yeah I know what you mean but you've always got to keep your feet planted in reality.

You ever see Top Gun?
You know the scene, after Goose dies, they've conducted the investigation, Maverick is cleared, he's in the bathroom and Viper comes in and tells him about his squadron in Vietnam and how they lost so many men etc, and at the end he says "There'll be others, you can count on it. You've got to let him go."

Same deal. There'll be others, you've got to let them go.

All true peeps and I can relate with past eperiences.
It is a cliche for sure but my current relationship (ex ML) is working out just fine even if it is hard work some times.