My 2 favs in Thailand who I've known for YEARS, both have kids: 1 is a widow, the other told me "I picked the wrong guy..." Both stepped up and have taken care of their family, doing what they had to do. What amazes me neither is bitter with their lot in life, making the best out of it, and just genuinely nice people. I've told both they are proof that Thai guys ARE stupid as both are still single. But it's the Asian mentality (of the kids), "Not my blood..."