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Originally Posted by asiafever
There are some very rich punters out there and regular punters are in a different world.Quote:
Originally Posted by Nelly69
If you try the "outside shop game" as I call it, you have to remember trying to "save" or "support" an ML / WL there is a ton of richer guys doing the same 😁
ML / WL live jn a different world too, most are not thinking of just paying off one house they think of paying off several, buying a business and having passive income by age of 35.
Regular punters think of paying off a mortgage by 50! If you are a regular punter on a salary and doing this as a hobby be aware you can't "help" these girls nor do they want saving.
The various threads in these topics has shown too many punters are "nice or naive"
Having said that I also enjoy meeting ML outside of shop but I know now even I have a good job etc etc, for most ML.the lifestyle they want vs what I think is good are world's apart.
Spot on. Girl in question was booked solid 5 or 6 days a week, last I spoke to her a while ago she had bought an apartment in a popular suburb and had a few different side gigs going, as well as sending money home for her family. Next phase according to her was to reduce her work and focus on the side gigs. Haven't seen her around for a while so I guess the transition has gone well. She didnt want nor need saving.Quote:
Originally Posted by PervySage
Too many guys watching fairy tale movies like Pretty Woman :)
Yeah bro that's right. Some WL's have rich punters who like them and take them out. I know this from first hand experience. I'm not rich but on a 6 figure salary. There are punters out there that drive expensive cars and have expensive houses however, the girls need to take care because it's generally the expensive punters who treat them like shit. I'm not saying every one of them does but the vast majority have so much money, they treat them like a sex doll. I've heard rich punters booking girls for 10 hours high on coke. The girls take it as well but after a few hours, they are in excruciating pain.Quote:
Originally Posted by PervySage
But yes, most girls want to get out. Just a matter of when not if.
This is the world that many WLs will find themselves or be tempted to fall in and then find it difficult to escape. Wealthy guys who have loads of cash to spend on these girls and give them expensive presents like LV bags and holidays and let's not forget the drugs too.Quote:
Originally Posted by Niceguy11
Yeah bro, spot on. The drugs is just another problem they face. The industry + drugs + rich punters = an endless rabbit hole that they will never escape. It's only once they realise that they are essentially being used will they escape. They will come to a point of realisation. It's not a matter of if but when. It's like gambling. You get to a point where your like fuck this, I'm done. And the same with drugs. You get so low that you decide enough is enough. I've been there myself so can easily relate to WL's who are on drugs, gamble and drink. That was me about 15 years ago. But not anymore. It's the realisation that will get them to change.Quote:
Originally Posted by cuteguy
The WL that I stopped seeing back in Nov just msg me today saying she misses me and and sorry to be a bitch. she will change and give her heart to me blar blar blar... too late I say, I think you lost your regular income and expensive dinners and wants that back! Yes, I know she reads this forum and probably worked out my Alias! Too bad, my fellow bros here have slapped me out of a bad fantasy. I'll save my money for the real girls! lol
What happened before November bro ? I'm too lazy to go back in the thread to see what happened lol. But yeah, I reckon something probably happened with her hence why she misses you. It's like when regulars message you when you haven't seen them for a while saying "hi baby when you going to see me ?".Quote:
Originally Posted by Nelly69
Well done mate...you will thank yourself...as many wise punters have said MLs and WLs need no saving, they enjoy Thier journey of making money.... at the beginning of their journey they might feel terrible but money changes everything.Quote:
Originally Posted by Nelly69
Heh, I'm actually guilty of this but not with WLs. I really enjoyed giving gifts to my past GFs, but it wasn't for "love".Quote:
Originally Posted by Nelly69
Over time, I realised the reason I kept doing it was for a combination of "thank you sex" and being able to have passionate sex with a girl while she's wearing a sexy piece of "something" that I saw in the shops. For example, I'd walk past a shop like Stuart Weitzmann, ogle at the sexy girls in the shop buying those sexy long boots. I'd then buy a pair for my GF, and get her to wear them when we have passionate "thank you sex".
I have a thing for legs and shoes, so I've done this with multiple past GFs buying them nice shoes. Always designer shoes, oh my god I dunno how they can design shoes that are so sexy. Gucci, Balenciaga, CL, Chanel, Valentino (rock studs, a miracle of fashion design!)... I love them all.
I haven't done this with a WL before, but only because I couldn't get my head around the logistics of it!
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Originally Posted by GoldfishMan
Sexy long boot 👢 like this ??
https://64.media.tumblr.com/74a83024...mmxo1_1280.jpg
Hell yes, bro AHL. In black, on slinky long legs, and a gstring. Best of all, with my GF so no need for condom. Was one of the best fucks of my life.Quote:
Originally Posted by AHLUNGOR
Yeah man it does. Its just amazing at how important money is to the girls. When they start in this industry, they need money to survive as they start with nothing. Once they start earning the good money, its very hard for them to get out of the industry. I mean they can quit anytime, nothing is holding them back but the high income is just too much of a incentive for them to stay. They also develop a taste for expensive things like bags and shoes etc.Quote:
Originally Posted by Bunty4
Personally, I think its good Nelly69 cut off contact with her. I still don't recommend getting into a relationship with a WL. In relation to being friends, it really comes down to a case by case basis. It's hard for me to explain, but if you feel she is legitimate in hanging out with you without the financial gain or wanting to get PR which is hard to determine at first, then sure being friends is fine.
You're spot on Niceguy11. No one is forcing them to work or stay in this industry. Money is the driving force here. I can understand some girls find this line of employment the only means of paying their college fees but when the girls are buying expensive brand name goods then they must be doing well. If they want to live the high life, dine out at expensive restaurants, drink expensive champagne, buy expensive LV bags, fashion accessories or jewellery, travel and stay at 5 star hotels or resorts than you don't feel sorry for them.Quote:
Originally Posted by Niceguy11
It's not easy being in a relationship with a WL. However, if you are able to accept what she does and just hang out and be friends, that's your choice. Let's make it clear. Not every girl is money hungry or bad. There are some that may be nice and don't want to be doing this job all the time and want to have some time out from work. If she accepts you as a friend and expects no financial rewards just because she hangs out with you then it's fine to socialise. On the other hand, where she expects you to pay for everything and get the princess treatment at all times then forget it. Don't waste your time!
Best advice someone gave me, chase money not women, because women will then chase you.
Good luck and keep it real!
Yeah cuteguy, I have accepted her for who she is. I don't really care she is a WL and to be honest, it makes no difference to my friends who are lawyers, doctors and from other backgrounds. When we hang out outside the shop, its just like hanging out with a normal female or male friend. The times that we have gone out for dinner, she haspaid for most of the dinners we have had. I have offered to pay but she has always pulls out her card quickly and pay which sucks because I want to pay.Quote:
Originally Posted by cuteguy
The more I get to know her, the more I'm being bought back to reality in terms of punting. About 6 weeks ago, my whole thinking on punting was just to fuck, blow and leave. But now my perspective is coming back. To be totally honest, when I do have sex with her now, its extremely hard to do so. She is probably the most beautiful Chinese girl I have laid eyes on and when she dresses up, I can't stop staring at her and telling her how gorgeous she looks. Like seriously, I'm talking like Fan Bing Bing hot for the Chinese girl lovers out there. But back to my point. It's becoming extremely hard to have sex with her. I do get erect and we have sex like normal but its not like it use to be 6 months ago compared to now. It's the same experience, it has always been the same, but I don't know. Maybe I'm disconnecting from the punting side of things since I now know so much about the realities of punting and feel bad ? Best way to put it is it feels like I'm having sex with my Chinese University friend who is also hot but not a WL.
Anyways, I'm happy where its going at the moment. Sooner rather than later, I'll be quitting punting I think. If my regular moves back to China which is probably imminent, then yeah, that will be me done and dusted.
As hot as Fan Bing Bing? Fck me...you need help right now!!Quote:
Originally Posted by Niceguy11
Yeah woods. She looked absolutely amazing lol.Quote:
Originally Posted by woods23