Originally Posted by
Sendmetheacti
The big tell or give away was the lack of male hookers. If women love sex as much as men where are all the male brothels in every city in the world?
Even in cultures like Japan where there are males that women pay to see. They are paying to talk and spend time with them. They are not really paying for 'sex with a hot guy'. Infact there is literally near 0 places in the world where a woman arrives there for 30 minutes, pays, goes to a private room with a guy that barely speak the same language, has sex with him and leaves. That just never ever happens. There is no market for this. The only small exception is maybe a bachelorette party, but again she's mostly there with her friends and to drink. No one is going to these dancing bear parties alone for the men, more the reaction of her friends to the men and visa versa.
It's not a bad thing and were not angry at women or anything.
But I think it is pretty clear that they are wired very differently when it comes to sex.
And to think women 'want' sex the same way men do is in the same line of thinking as 'men can be pregnant too' and 'both sexes are completely equal'.
But I dont want to start a political shit fight, not in this sacred place.
Just putting out my thoughts I guess.
Sex in marriage worked fine when there was a social expectation that a wife's duty was to always be available sexually. But that idea went out the window with feminism and equality and seems rapey.
Now I don't actually think the system works anymore. Women generally stop wanting sex when there stops being valuable things to trade it for (ie. His already hitched to you and giving him sex doesn't seem give you anything you wouldn't already have).
And the male sex drive doesn't really care about trading sex for anything. Sex is the goal in itself that we will trade other things for.
Atleast we live in glorious Sydney where it's legal to discreetly get your needs met elsewhere.
Honestly Im starting to believe prostituition is actually far more stable of a model than marriage when it comes to keeping both sexes satisfied. Prostituition is what marriage was supposed to be, plus kids.
I bring the resources so you can eat, you bring the sex, so I can be satisfied. That's what marriage was supposed to be.