WL/ML who work long hours 6-7 days a week
I had a chat with a few WLs and MLs who were clearly into the money and worked so many days in a week, some even working up to 12 hours a day. Seeing how much money they're making doing their job, I wonder if they even save any money aside or do they just spend the surplus on expensive restaurants, spas and clothing/jewellery?
For example, these are the circumstances I find with some girls:
- My ML ex would spend her surplus money paying for uni and going to expensive spas on her day off. She also loved going to expensive reservations only restaurants. In the end she saved nothing and was expecting me to buy a $2mil apartment in the city for us to live together in (and possibly take it all for herself through divorce).
- My WL ex was trying to save up money to pay for uni in her home country rather than to take up student loan. She would work everyday and only take breaks when she is on period.
- One ML wasn't even interested in relationships, she worked multiple shops and only talks about money. When I asked her why is she trying to make as much money as she can, she hinted that she wanted to bring this money back to her home country so that she can live a luxurious life if she can't stay in Australia. (She hinted how much she makes by the amount of condoms she used up in a month - which is a box of 20s X $100 tip).
- Another WL, worked as a WL in her home country and came here hoping not to get back into the industry but was desperate for money so she worked temporarily to rake up the amount she needed. Didn't tell me what for.
Since the money they make is cash based, those who saved up can't really deposit them into the bank unless they declare it using their ABN number and generate invoices (and forced to pay tax on their earnings). For those who splurge I guess they can report little to zero during their quarterly BAS.
Those ones who declare their incomes can get all paid taxes refunded once they go back for good but I do feel bad for those who splurge and are hoping to find a rich husband to leech off.
My ML ex was basically leeching off of me while we dated. She never bought me presents for my birthday, Valentine's or Xmas, not even a cheap but thoughtful trinket. I ended my relationship with her not only because of that, but because she told me at the very end that she didn't want to have kids. So I felt no point in continuing a relationship with a leech who puts nothing on the table or won't even give me kids.
My WL ex was crazy - she expected me to be her customer whenever I want sex (I was only taking her out on sexless dates during her days off), and expect me to be okay with her going back to her home country at the end of her WH to study several years before we get married. Definitely not down for long distance relationship.
Now that I'm dating normal girls (someone not in the sex industry) it doesn't feel too different from dating one from that industry. I no longer concern myself on how many dicks a girl have seen because I've seen plenty of pussies myself.