Loyalty

Anyone have a similar experience where you have shown loyalty to one shop and or girl for a long time and start to feel unappreciated but you keep going back.

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Originally Posted by A Nice Guy

Anyone have a similar experience where you have shown loyalty to one shop and or girl for a long time and start to feel unappreciated but you keep going back.

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It's about the money ....

Doesn’t sounds like you are punting, but more like dating. If you are feeling unappreciated, that’s a good sign that you should stop. Are you falling for that girl? That is dangerous

Long time lurker and first time posting here. I am having similar experience. I know it shouldn’t happen but I think Im falling for the girl…

Long time lurker and first time posting here. I am having similar experience. I know it shouldn’t happen but I think Im falling in

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Originally Posted by A Nice Guy

Anyone have a similar experience where you have shown loyalty to one shop and or girl for a long time and start to feel unappreciated but you keep going back.

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The more you go the lazier they get and the worse they treat you, they think your a chump little bitch who they can step on.

You need to book a session with someone else in the same shop, don't be afraid you will upset her who cares fuck her, I had to do it recently, booked it right in her face then waited a couple of weeks, the next time I went she flipped me straight over went at like she had been waiting and thinking about it like she should, wouldn't stop till I blew in her mouth then acted all sweet total attitude shift appreciation suddenly showed up, it's buyers market out there business isn't that good, plenty of good choices let her know.

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Originally Posted by x0lover

Doesn’t sounds like you are punting, but more like dating. If you are feeling unappreciated, that’s a good sign that you should stop. Are you falling for that girl? That is dangerous

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More so the shop than any one girl but yeah I probably have fallen for girls there too.
Agree probably is time to move on and try other places and girls.
Hard to break the routine though

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Originally Posted by thunder545454

The more you go the lazier they get and the worse they treat you, they think your a chump little bitch who they can step on.

You need to book a session with someone else in the same shop, don't be afraid you will upset her who cares fuck her, I had to do it recently, booked it right in her face then waited a couple of weeks, the next time I went she flipped me straight over went at like she had been waiting and thinking about it like she should, wouldn't stop till I blew in her mouth then acted all sweet total attitude shift appreciation suddenly showed up, it's buyers market out there business isn't that good, plenty of good choices let her know.

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That's exactly what happened mate, I'd become her bitch and she knew it. Tried other girls there and worked for a while service came back but because she's popular at this shop and chumps pay well above market rates she doesn't give a rat's about loyal customers, only the highest bidder.
Stupid part was I was having fun in the shop with another girl who won't see me now because of her
Fucked situation all round.

This the national pussy convention?

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Originally Posted by A Nice Guy

Stupid part was I was having fun in the shop with another girl who won't see me now because of her
Fucked situation all round.

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Damn son, ya gotta start thinking with the right head, it's all business, transactional, don't get attached.
What other industry has you paying decent dollar to be refused service due to BS like this

What's the quote these days - if you want loyalty get a dog!
$foW2

Loyalty is the naive word for what they're trying to do.

Extract more money off you by telling you or implying you get more if you come back.

I remember some shops used to have loyalty cards and I always threw them away when they give it to me.

Some girls then offered to keep the card for me, so in a way I get a discount if I keep seeing the her lol

Thanks guys for all the advice. Duly noted

Better yet thanks for those who have messaged recommendations to get me out of this rut. I was going to said shop anything from 2 - 4 times a week so cashed up after a short break. I'll work my way through your recommendations and report back in a week or so.

Thanks boys

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Originally Posted by A Nice Guy

Thanks guys for all the advice. Duly noted

Better yet thanks for those who have messaged recommendations to get me out of this rut. I was going to said shop anything from 2 - 4 times a week so cashed up after a short break. I'll work my way through your recommendations and report back in a week or so.

Thanks boys

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Thats the spirit fella.
You will be yabba dabba dooing new and fun girls in no time.
2-4 times a week, no wonder shops tried to trap you. Spread the love man.
Shops should be begging you to be a regular not driving you away

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Originally Posted by Ghost of BarneyRubble

Thats the spirit fella.
You will be yabba dabba dooing new and fun girls in no time.
2-4 times a week, no wonder shops tried to trap you. Spread the love man.
Shops should be begging you to be a regular not driving you away

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Exactly Barney
You would think they would appreciate regular customers coming to their shop and not want to lose them.
Not just one girl losing my business here.
Jake is on the money too. Any other business would do whatever it took to keep you as their customer.
Not this one apparently.

Ah well their loss. Won't make the same mistake again.
Already started to share the love as you say and man it's feeling good.

Another update on how it's going next week

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Originally Posted by A Nice Guy

Ah well their loss. Won't make the same mistake again.
Already started to share the love as you say and man it's feeling good.

Another update on how it's going next week

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Glad to hear ya out of the slump and getting around.
This game has it's ups and downs, and it appears that you're on your way upppp.

Let us know what hidden gems you uncover.

Loyalty is an interesting thing. Depends on who your loyal to. The girls get you in, but come and go. To most of them you are just $$$.
It's the shop owners who will repay loyalty, to the business and whoever works there on that day. I have found that establishing a relationship with the boss taking the bookings works well.
Fond memories of calling Pam at Stanley Street for the menu and finding gems time and again, often on her recommendations. Some of them still around today and never an issue trying a new girl or seeing and old fave.
Currently there are a couple of well known places with a similar feel and messaging the owner who's taking bookings can unearth interesting new experiences.
RTG

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Originally Posted by A Nice Guy

That's exactly what happened mate, I'd become her bitch and she knew it. Tried other girls there and worked for a while service came back but because she's popular at this shop and chumps pay well above market rates she doesn't give a rat's about loyal customers, only the highest bidder.
Stupid part was I was having fun in the shop with another girl who won't see me now because of her
Fucked situation all round.

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I have been in the same situation mate. Problem is that even though you know it is only business, it is hard to not become attached. By the way how did you get to know that other customers paid her more. Did she tell you about it? As far as I know they don't disclose the tips. How did you find out?

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Originally Posted by A Nice Guy

More so the shop than any one girl but yeah I probably have fallen for girls there too.
Agree probably is time to move on and try other places and girls.
Hard to break the routine though

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Very true. It's very hard to break the routine.

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Originally Posted by ArtieGee

Loyalty is an interesting thing. Depends on who your loyal to. The girls get you in, but come and go. To most of them you are just $$$.
It's the shop owners who will repay loyalty, to the business and whoever works there on that day. I have found that establishing a relationship with the boss taking the bookings works well.
Fond memories of calling Pam at Stanley Street for the menu and finding gems time and again, often on her recommendations. Some of them still around today and never an issue trying a new girl or seeing and old fave.
Currently there are a couple of well known places with a similar feel and messaging the owner who's taking bookings can unearth interesting new experiences.
RTG

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Pam , wow some memorable stories to recall.

Some are genuine and will reward loyalty with discounts, extra services, more meaningful experiences etc, others won’t bother.

For some, it’s SOP to hook a loyal customer with extravagant services, then actually reduce services over time. They can be very strategic and play a long game with this. And will target vulnerable people.

Red flags are being told they love you (I’ve had this on a first visits lol) and fishing questions trying to ascertain your income and assets.

Spread your wings, avoid becoming a regular. If it’s intimacy and relationship you want, you won’t find it here.

If you don’t know who the mark is, it’s definitely you.

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Originally Posted by ArtieGee

Loyalty is an interesting thing. Depends on who your loyal to. The girls get you in, but come and go. To most of them you are just $$$.
It's the shop owners who will repay loyalty, to the business and whoever works there on that day. I have found that establishing a relationship with the boss taking the bookings works well.
Fond memories of calling Pam at Stanley Street for the menu and finding gems time and again, often on her recommendations. Some of them still around today and never an issue trying a new girl or seeing and old fave.
Currently there are a couple of well known places with a similar feel and messaging the owner who's taking bookings can unearth interesting new experiences.
RTG

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Before I found this shop I was going to three other shops and had a great relationship with the owners who like you would recommend girls they knew I would like.

Recently I returned to one of the previous shops I went to and was welcomed with open arms and felt appreciated and valued as a customer.

I'm reasonably well connected and recommended the shop I've now stopped going to so lots of new customers for them. To be treated the way I have been made me feel like shit after all I did for them.

To be called A Nice Guy in this game I now consider an insult suggesting you are an easy mark.

Anyway it's working out for me now. More and better options and having fun again which is what it's all about.

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Originally Posted by Gentlemanscarfacethird

Some are genuine and will reward loyalty with discounts, extra services, more meaningful experiences etc, others won’t bother.

For some, it’s SOP to hook a loyal customer with extravagant services, then actually reduce services over time. They can be very strategic and play a long game with this. And will target vulnerable people.

Red flags are being told they love you (I’ve had this on a first visits lol) and fishing questions trying to ascertain your income and assets.

Spread your wings, avoid becoming a regular. If it’s intimacy and relationship you want, you won’t find it here.

If you don’t know who the mark is, it’s definitely you.

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I can relate to this too. Reduced services and in some cases found out services provided to new customers I'd reccomended were more than provided to myself. Not crying about that but makes you think why I bothered putting money in their pockets.

Good approach not to become a regular to any one girl. I intend doing that from her on.

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Originally Posted by A Nice Guy

I can relate to this too. Reduced services and in some cases found out services provided to new customers I'd reccomended were more than provided to myself. Not crying about that but makes you think why I bothered putting money in their pockets.

Good approach not to become a regular to any one girl. I intend doing that from her on.

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Same here too. I didn't recommend any customers since I knew that they are not loyal to any customer and all they cared for was money. However, the mistake I made was that I showed them that I was crazy for one girl and would not book anyone else. We are talking about massage services here not full services and the place pretended to be legit. But I knew for sure that they provided more than what this girl offered me so kept chasing her and being nice to her. I don't know why she wouldn't provide me extras as these were available in the shop. Probably she thought I was an easy target so would be sucked into giving her more and more money and returning every time. So maybe she gave other people the services that she didn't give me. Or maybe she didn't give extras in the shop while others did. I don't know. But the strange thing is that while she knew that I was in love with her, she would often advise me to see others too in the shop. Finally, something happened and I missed going there for a few weeks and then realized that it wasn't that bad. Now I see other girls at other massage shops but I try not do repeat someone on a regular basis. That place has been history for me for years now.