How many of you punters have wives/girlfriends, and if you do why do you punt. I have a girlfriend but I have only punted once and maybe looking again
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How many of you punters have wives/girlfriends, and if you do why do you punt. I have a girlfriend but I have only punted once and maybe looking again
Different flavours of pussy is nice
I'm a greedy cunt.
Punting with no emotion attached should be fine. At 67 yo, my FIL still cheated on his wife. He’s in love with a woman 30 years younger than his age. He got forgiven by his wife because he said that she was a whore, not a lover. Low but it workout hey.
In the words of the great Patrice O'Neal.
Men have one flaw. We love pussy we haven't fucked yet
I wonder how those who do indeed have partners would react if they found out their partner is also seeking sexual release outside of the relationship?
I did. It can quite easily destroy you.Quote:
Originally Posted by blackm0nk
It would show me wants it more than she lets onQuote:
Originally Posted by blackm0nk
And that she's selective on who she gives it to.Quote:
Originally Posted by bodog
Hmm interesting responses, perhaps you guys aren’t so well matched anymore?
Frequency no, but intensity yes. When things are good it drops off but when life is on the rocks it brings plenty and quality.
As time goes by you ask yourself if you were ever matched properly.Quote:
Originally Posted by blackm0nk
I don't punt anymore, or very rarely. Down to 1 every 2 months or even less. I lost count. Been like this for about 1.5 years now.Quote:
Originally Posted by MassageKing2006
But back when I was punting, I always did it when partnered cos I've never been truly single since 19. I reckon the longest stretch was 1+ years when I was a flat broke fresh grad without a job, lol...
Let's just say having a partner never stopped me from punting. As for why.... I guess because I'm an irresponsible horny bastard who's willing to risk the health of my partners for my own enjoyment. It is what it is...
The age gap is nothing new, my last JGirl was 40 years younger. There is no love, only infatuation, great sex and company if and when I want it.Quote:
Originally Posted by bluehat3131
Love is a pipe dream inhaled by people who are young at heart and coughed right back up by people who are old enough to know better.
I don't have a partner. When I did I punted a couple of times a year and only HJs.
The hard truth I never expected to learn.Quote:
Originally Posted by Axeman123
I'd be both confused and happy. Confused because im the one with the high sex drive getting knocked back, and happy that I can then openly go exploring. No more cloak and dagger shit, we on the same page.Quote:
Originally Posted by blackm0nk
+1.... At this stage in my rel'ship, I'd happily adopt the 'don't ask, don't tell' mantra and live and let live.... :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Reaper6
I think is a mental disorder on my part. It helps me to deal with my crippling anxiety and makes me feel adventurous. It also feels like I'm treating myself, I have worked my ass off all my life, and have never taken a break since I have memory, so it feels like my only sin besides being a 'model' citizen. Also, I don't engage in risky sexual behaviours, mostly HJ and Body slides
With you all the way.Quote:
Originally Posted by bung72
Hearing you all the way.Quote:
Originally Posted by SiberianKhatru98
Being an old timer of the forum, no need for introduction that I have been a regular punter and yet self confessed "happily married" old guy. One thing I do pride myself is that while I have been punting for a long time, I never have any "affairs", "girl friend" or "mistress" on the side, (financially tight was the main reason I suppose), never even think about as my family and marriage is upmost important. Knowing my wife, if she ever found out I have cheated - either GF type or punting, my family life will end and I would not allow that to happen.
That's why in last few years, it's getting harder and harder to even have a quickie as the Mrs has been checking on my where about more frequently. Quite a few times she had called me on facetime to see where about was I and if I have been with any female companion...........lol, it's not funny and I was very lucky that I haven't been caught yet. and must be very careful keeping it that way.
Would I stop punting for good, don't think so ! the body and mind is still eager and willing, just need to find a "safe" time to do so. It's a challenge and getting harder and harder. Especially when I'm getting very close to full retirement in the next year or two, I guess once I stop working full time, it will be the end of my punting journey.
As for now, wish me luck and hopefully there's still a few sessions left in my life time.............haha
Cheers
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Originally Posted by AHLUNGOR
I'm in exactly the same boat as yourself AHL. After a few skaty marital years we finally sorted ourselves out and couldn't be more happier with our relationship. Last year I went through a very hard time and my wife was there for me every step of the way. That's why I even feel like more of a cunt for letting my smaller head rule.
And ALH, IM glad to hear its "getting harder and harder" for you as you age. Keep up the good work buddy