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My GF is a Thai ML. Recently found out she was doing extras and when I confronted her, she denied it. Became quite aggressive. Anyway, I'm in the process os splitting up and was interested if she had an OF account. How can I find out if she has an account?
Why add to the hurt she's caused by finding out what else she deceived you about. I've travelled that road and its just something else that will eat away at you. One betrayal is enough. Leave and start the healing process. Trust me bro, it's better this way.Quote:
Originally Posted by Holdan427
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Wise words Messo - appreciatedQuote:
Originally Posted by Messo
Bruh been down that road a couple times, it's always the same shit excuses,Quote:
Originally Posted by Holdan427
My boss pressured me into it.
I only did it sometimes.
I never thought you would find out.
All the other girls don't tell their boyfriends too.
I just need to save up for xyz thing then ill stop.
Don't worry about onlyfans go get an STD check is the first thing you need to worry about, then thank god you didn't get her prego.
I can tell you there is definitely other guys she has been seeing on the side, there will be sugar daddies guys who take her to hotel and dinner on the nights she says she is tired and wants to stay at home and sleep so don't call her......
It's a never ending pit of shit with these girls, just look at it as you almost got hit by a truck, but you escaped now is the time time to move on and forget her as quickly as possible, it doesn't matter what she did shes a lying whore throw her away and never look back.
Absolutely right mate - too many inconsistencies too - say one thing and it would not add up. She wanted a baby, a house etc etc.Quote:
Originally Posted by thunder545454
Agreed about the truck analogy - time to let her go completely.
Always the same song talking about a baby is a sure sign she you are a scheme to her, I saw one only 3 times, on the third date she was talking about getting pregnant.Quote:
Originally Posted by Holdan427
I think when they meet a stable competent man with his shit together, they immediately dive for a baby to lock you down, cause they know this guys responsible once I get a baby in me, he probably won't leave me, I can then angle a visa and take half his assets, while I keep all my cash hidden away.
When I meet these vipers now, I just yeh yeh we can have a baby after 6 months that sounds great, take her home drop the hammer into her all night long, after a couple months, I just randomly ignore her for a few days that's usually more than enough to send them off the deep end and use that fight to break it off.
Yet to meet one that wasn't after money or a visa it's always one of the two.
Sorry. Sane, stable and competent men do not go to massage shops and pay prostitutes for sexual servicesQuote:
Originally Posted by thunder545454
So you use them before they use you?Quote:
Originally Posted by thunder545454
You lure them with the promise of a visa and a baby and then fuck them over?
And you claim to be better than them. Please look in the mirror and admit you are as retarded as them.
Stable and competent my arse.
How many times is this now?Quote:
Originally Posted by Holdan427
This isnt the first time is it?
Getting into a relationship with a sex worker. Good luck.
I actually didn't promise them anything, I just say on a third day when she is talking about a baby, yeh in 6months from now....Quote:
Originally Posted by Phaser74
The lured themselves in trying to run whatever scheme they are trying to run, normal women don't talk about babies on a third date......
They are trying to run a game on punters, they make themselves delusional promises of babies and visas, ive never once said to girl come out with me I really want to give you a baby or a visa, no it's 100% of the time something they end up asking for.
If I met one that wasn't a nut job and it lasted 6 months see what happens, but it hasn't happened yet, not my fault they self implode and become annoying long before 6 months is up.
Yes they do. Men of all types do. What amount of gear are you taking to believe otherwise.Quote:
Originally Posted by Phaser74
A seasoned punter used to say : enjoy the fuck and leave with no strings attached. It’s easy to say but sometimes it’s hard to keep..
A vasectomy helps with the no baby side of things.Quote:
Originally Posted by thunder545454
Keep believin sunshineQuote:
Originally Posted by Fitch
I wish i had the gear you are on.
Sane men don’t pay for sex. They get it for free.
Ask 100 normal women. “What do you think about a man who pays for sex?”
Ask 100 married women “What would you think if your husband paid for sex with a prostitute?”
What is going on? here.
Twice - learned my lession now - slow learnerQuote:
Originally Posted by Phaser74
I don't ask women anything, women are miserable creatures.Quote:
Originally Posted by Phaser74
Ive dated a few ML they will tell you most customers at shops are married men.
There is an uncomfortable truth no one in society will admit, most of all women, it's that 90% of my mates after their wife has popped out kids, completely loses her sex drive, whatever the reasons they give are valid or not, who cares reality is a womans sex drive goes from 100 to 0 after kids.
Mens sex drive stays the same creating a massive miss match, regardless of womens opinions on it being gross or not, all men in sexless marriages want relief, they don't want a relationship, they don't want complications, they want 45mins of fun to release their pent up sexual energy.
So your assumption most guys who go for hand jobs are some kind of weirdo freaks couldn't be further from the truth there are alot, but the bulk of customers are normal married men.
Interesting. How did U find out she was doing extras? With her working in a shop U had to have suspicions already right? First thing I would have done is find out if the shop is legit only or not. What made U think she has OF account? U could check her phone for the app I guess. But it doesn't really matter now anyway since U are slitting up. At least U got some while it lasted. Water U der the bridge now.Quote:
Originally Posted by Holdan427
I wonder when men are going to wake up? Remember, these gals are prostitutes, but I ve seen multiple men on here talking about all the "respect" they deserve.
Not that I have anything against prostitution, but these women are in our country, earning a lot of money tax free, many on a student or some other temporary visa. Some here illegally. They are not victims.
I ve used sex workers in Asia, when I lived and worked there, and here in Brisbane obviously.
These women are not GF or wife material, anyone with a few brain cells knows that. Have your fun and be on your merry way.
The "I want a baby" thing is a trap, so is the "let's get married soon", especially dangerous for men who own mortgage free property, or still have a mortgage.
I had a Chinese ML try the "want to marry soon?" line with me a few years ago, a gal at Woolloongabba, I won't say name or shop, but , it was in 2021. Because I am an Aussie who can speak Chinese it makes it's a lot easier for me to work out how these gals think, you can see right through their BS.
Just in regard to "married men
not paying for sex", married men get cleaned out in the family court/divorce courts all the time. They pay more than most other men, a lot don't even get any sex.
[QUOTE=thunder545454;3807870]I don't ask women anything, women are miserable creatures./QUOTE]
Fucking yikes.
Why would I ask the most irrational, illogical beings on the planet when I could just ask a man.Quote:
Originally Posted by Phaser74
sadly, true. Not only asians, euros as well.Quote:
Originally Posted by SGBAnnerley
speaking of tax, its not fair...
After we started dating, I noticed some odd behaviours. She worked in a CBD shop twice a week and the other weekdays, in a major shopping centre shop. On the days she worked in the CBD, she dressed differently, didn;t have a uniform (she said she leaves it in the shop); she wore a lot of makeup; and she had a certain purse (which i checked onece after she finished and it was full of cash - even though she said the owners paid her via eft). One night I picked her up and she was coming out of a different shop - one I knew did extras. I asked her about it. She avoided the questions.Quote:
Originally Posted by thunderdome
Too many red flags. Run away if you can.
Very popular ML gets married two Saturdays ago. Working up until three days before wedding and then back on roster four days later. Probably not overly related to your situation but does show a certain mindset i think.
Of course there could be a perfectly plausible explanation.