Recently lost 12% of my body weight and am getting treated a bit differently. How much do you think looks, smell and presentation play a role in what service you receive from an ml?
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Recently lost 12% of my body weight and am getting treated a bit differently. How much do you think looks, smell and presentation play a role in what service you receive from an ml?
Hmm I think cleanliness, freshly showered and good hygiene (no bad breath etc) is more important to them than if you’re handsome or not.
If you look and smell clean (including the little soldier) I can't see that their that much fussed about looks - there is always someone dirtier and uglier coming in and that gets serviced without issues, plus it' usually in a dark lit room so any body-imperfection are less noticeable. If you get attitude from the ML excuse yourself and take your money elsewhere! Have seen a few f-uglies (with a big smile on their face) leave the premises as I enter. YMMV
Yeah always have brushed teeth ECT totally agreeQuote:
Originally Posted by Puntersclub
I used to visit one of the shops in the popular chains often and one ML told me I am the only one she has seen in business shirt and trousers. Most of the customers that turned up there were tradies.
I work in corporate so I dress like that, not that there is anything wrong being a tradie. Most of good mates are tradies. But she felt that they rocked up straight from their shift and it wasn’t something she liked - but still serviced them as it’s her job to do so.
Bottom line is that the young ML prefer well maintained male bodies
Maybe time for a cycle of Tren and see if i can put 4 shots away in a session bahahQuote:
Originally Posted by JJBeck
Money>Age>Outlook
If you pay double the price, nothing feels like a problem.
We are all deluding ourselves if we think looks don't matter - at a subconscious level, of course they do.Quote:
Originally Posted by weaknet
Imagine you are gigolo - are you going to enjoy servicing a client you find physically attractive more (or at least, hygienic and polite), compared to say someone who is objectively obese/ugly/terrible personality?
Yes, in an ideal world, everyone receives the same level of service. But many studies show that more "attractive" people get better levels of service/interaction (just google it).
These days, I look remarkably like a Totoro, which may explain why Japanese ML's still like me.
You can be ugly and have no personality, as long as you pay double, finish quick and leave before your times up girls will cancel their regular customers to priorise you.
A couple of years ago, I received a message from a shop owner asking if I wanted to book the same girl as the previous week. She wanted me to see me again.
On that next visit, we banged twice bareback for only three pines.
Looks and personally count.
Money talks, otherwise they wouldn’t be in the business.
I'm so good looking the girls pay me to fuck them.
Harry444, I only know of one person on this site that can get more from girls base on his looks and attitude
I don't know about looks, age etc. Different MLs will have different preferences based on their own age, culture etc.
Being significantly overweight is definitely not a plus.
But I have heard it from many MLs that they REALLY appreciate clean, well groomed, tidy, nice smelling customers.
And that is something that regardless of what genes you were outfitted with, you can control.
Its the Whole Package.
Bring your best Attitude and Sense of Fun.
You want a Memorable, above average experience for yourself and for them.
Make them relaxed and comfortable with you.
You want Enthusiasm, not a Mediocre process worker effort.
but your process is not a guaranteed outcome. Maybe 10-20% of girls will provide improved service while the rest are just doing it for money.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sanuk555
but it is the 10-20% that make it worthwhile. Had a good visit with a girl in Acqua, time was up and we were still going. in the end far from shuffling me out the door she then suggested showering together. I'm not sure how long I was there. The next visit was the same.
My input is that preparation matter, personality matters but only for a subset of providers.
Well that person isn't me lololQuote:
Originally Posted by JJBeck
Understood the overall image is important and M/Ls will appreciate that, however, the whole thing is indeed a trade, money for sex. Would like to do that without spending much time and efforts.
Take much time to prepare yourself to see a sex worker, not a good option for some people. Maybe worth doing that for seeing someone more important in your life.
Why see a sex worker if you have someone more important in your life
It is part of the overall package.Quote:
Originally Posted by nobodynose
Still if you look good, smell good and present well, it doesn’t matter if you come across as needy, weak and insecure you may as well have walked in wearing a black bag and stinking like cat dung
Money always wins with a sex worker.Quote:
Originally Posted by weaknet
Outlook is more important than age though.
If you walk in at age 75 and come across as assured, focused and with a clear goal, it’s so much better than walking in as a 30yo with you head drooped, shoulders sagged and mumbling incoherently.
Women are not as focused on looks as men. Plain and simple
Surely you realise that majority of punters are married.Quote:
Originally Posted by JJBeck
Wait until you find out that some even talk about their wife and children to these girls, going to lengths to have a friendship with these girls.
Cant get much lower than cheating on your wife while also sharing things about your wife and kids with the ML.
I am not judging or condemning
Good on the married men that can manage both lives
I struggle with one, so hat off to them
Plenty of ML share info that customers told them with other customers, some only share with the customer they sort of trust others with everyone and joke about it as well.
Yes indeed and Thai girls are particularly good at doing this. Sometimes it's part of the GFE to give you the impression that you are more special than the other guys she sees and it works a treat. Some girls just have a big mouth and are just plain stupid with no idea of the ramifications.Quote:
Originally Posted by JJBeck
I don't think some of them realise that some of these customers are also building up a data base on them. I suppose it's always good to have a supply of dry powder in case the s@*t hits the fan with a reg girl.