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So I’ve been punting for a while now and trying out some new girls and shops - ML’s only. I’ve become better at assessing when it will be a dud punt, you know, limited conversation, no connection, mechanical routine, standoffish, etc.
Problem is, this only becomes apparent once the massage has begun and time paid. What do you guys do? Do you fork out more cash for unsatisfactory extras that will leave you wanting or cut your losses and take your load elsewhere?
Mate, if you are an active member in this forum, you shouldn’t be having any dud punt. So many intels available and besides, I believe most regular punters should have their usual go to shops and go to girls - may be it’s just me as my time and resources are limited. But if you are into adventures and explorations it’s good too and good luck to you.Quote:
Originally Posted by papi
85-90% of my experiences are great ones with various extras available. I have my regulars, but sometimes they are not available when I am and I have to fulfill the need. I mostly punt around St George area due to proximity and limited time and there are not a lot of current reviews on these girls and most of these shops.Quote:
Originally Posted by AHLUNGOR
If it’s going shit & I get that feeling I stop after massage & get outta there cutting my losses
If you go to a R&T shop then all you are entitled to is a massage ... and if you pay extra, a HJ ... and that's it.
You have no entitlement to DFK, DATY, CBJ, BBBJ, fucking, GFE, PSE etc.
If a girl agrees to give you more and you are prepared to pay for it then fuck yeah, go for it, great! enjoy!
But if not then just relax and enjoy the massage ...
Extras are always offered, but if we don’t click at the massage stage, I know the extras will not be worth it. I guess my question is, is it rude or offensive to knock back the offer of extras?Quote:
Originally Posted by rooter
Have you had any issues with the ML or shop doing this? BTW, I think we frequent some of the same shops.Quote:
Originally Posted by Peter69
Yep, today I cut the session short. Couldn’t wait to leave.Quote:
Originally Posted by otokosg
Well, that’s why I always pick the busty girls !Quote:
Originally Posted by papi
Because even if the HJ is shit, if she’s got big tits , I’ll just enjoy the Spanish in which she doesn’t even have to move....... haha
You raise a good issue papi, and I reckon what you did today is the only course.
This happened to me in a popular R&T shop recently. Part 1 she just went through the motions. Zero chemistry.
When she whispered into my ear with an offer of extras at the 45-minute mark, I said “no thank you.”
The girl was stunned.
I got up to leave and she pleaded with me “not to go so soon because my boss will be angry”.
I stayed, explained why there was no part 2, got dressed, and walked out bang on 55 minutes.
Postscript is this same girl is now receiving great reviews on this forum. Just didn’t click on the day.
Thanks, I’ll keep this in mind for future punts.Quote:
Originally Posted by The Speechwriter
If the chemistry is not there and she’s going through the motions, it’s unlikely you’ll get more than a HJ, let alone Spanish.Quote:
Originally Posted by AHLUNGOR
As per usual, Lungor is full of shit.Quote:
Originally Posted by papi
Goes for the girls with big tits, avoiding a half assed hand job by obliging her to take money to fuck her tits, which he clearly enjoys more than said hand job ... sounds like solid logic to me.
I can see why that level of analysis escapes trolls ...
Quality services !
I’ve had a few dud punts after continuing after a very ordinary Part 1. I still continued on those occasions to Part 2 but didn’t really enjoy it very much and think back why did I bother and could I have done anything at the time. I think I will follow the advice here and abort if things aren’t going well. I think the first few times will be hard to do without feeling bad for the ML but like other things, you will get used to doing after a few times and for the better.
I always walk if it looks to be a dud punt. The sooner you can work it out the more chance you have of getting a refund or swapping the girl.
Sometimes the girl will try to change her tune once she knows you are walking so she doesn't get in trouble, but I still walk.
The OP had a good question and you often dont get a lot of time to decide if the chemistry is there
Well said AH,Quote:
Originally Posted by AHLUNGOR
That is why I choose the busty girls in FS as if their service is not very good then I have their tits to play with.
For me if I dont like them for whatever reason or Crappy Massage then I use my Tip money for another punt.
So basically everyones not tipping upfront than ?
thats the only way you can still choose to abort and walk out.
But would not tipping upfront also be the cause of why the ML may be a bit defensive and not clicking in part 1 ?
Interesting question. Reminds me of my very first punt. Went to a RnT shop for the first time and let mamasan choose the girl for me. Didn’t really click at all. Part 1 was bad and she didn’t have a particularly great look or body either.. so when she offered me the extra I just sad no. Not knowing the proper etiquette I still tipped her $20 and when the mamasan asked me how she was I just said she’s good... 😂
I think a couple of bros are missing my point. The shops I visit are RnT and extras are always offered.
My point is this, like any service industry, if you want repeat customers and more business you need to provide good consistent service. I’m not talking about expecting every ML to offer DATY, FS, etc. I’ve had sessions with only HJ, that were more satisfying than FS, because the ML was friendly, attentive and had a great attitude.
You can do your best to be friendly, keep it light hearted and make small talk, but sometimes the ML just doesn’t want to be there.
I’ve had a few, only once at Summerville, baby massage, kogarah & miranda BUT! As I said only a few times in my whole ML experiences. Nothing bad about any of those shops I think it was just the particular girl didn’t really enjoy her job which I don’t really worry about because at the end of the day I have a choice to leave & so I did. These mentioned shops are great & doesn’t matter which shop you go to sooner or later you can strike a bad punt.Quote:
Originally Posted by papi
I hang out in massage shops, mostly regular places/girls so I know what I will get. In a new situation I can usually tell within 30 seconds if the girl has potential. Extras might be offered, but you don't have to accept them. If I'm in doubt, I will book 30 minutes, if she performs well, I can extend it. Much easier than cutting time back or regretting it later.Quote:
Originally Posted by papi