I also have this problem. For me I guess that's related to prostatitis. Since there is no really effective cure for this disease, I finally started to use delay spray which just basically make my penis partially numb for a few minutes, so that I don't cum within the 1-2 minutes like before.
sorry to hear your condition. i consider use spray too but i think wl will not like because make her numb too. so i dont use and try to control myself. after all premature cum is my problem so i try not inconvenience her.Originally Posted by dandydanny
I take shower to get rid of the spray before session starts, so Wls won't know I use it and won't be affected (I guess), but somehow the numb effect is still there
Practice makes perfect guys. The more you do it the better you will be able to control yourself from coming too quickly. Before you reach that level, this is what you need to do. You get to the point where you are going to ejaculate and then stop and think about sports or something else to cool down (eg stimulating the girl's sensitive parts with your fingers or tongue). This will help you train your body to master that response when you are with the girl. The other suggestion is start off slowly by firstly giving pleasure to the girl in order to get her aroused first and then to dive in when the time is right for you.
More sex will definitely help. It's all about mind control.
A girl told me once that her BF used to shoot his load before he could even insert his dick, so it's all relative ...
How long does it usually take during a session before you guys shoot your first load?
Just get some lube and fleshlight or soemthing and practice makes perfect//
i just google fleshlight. not sure if this help. i am ok if i control dick. but when girl in cowgirl she control moving. this is when i have trouble hold in cum.
Yeah flesh light is good. But nothing beats mental practice, it's all in the head.
The dick head ...
Lol , good one!The dick head ...
you can get medicine for that, and there are always adds on the radio for it
Funny I had the opposite problem I find it hard to ejaculate but have problem of maintaining an irection. I can fuck for hour without an ejaculation .
I think it all depends on the girl and the mood that you are in. For me, after a couple of heavy drinks, it hard to get things going cause i am too wasted. I try and change positions often so i can last longer during the session. Hope this works for you!
Depends on the girl. The regular I am currently seeing does it for me.
I can stay hard after I cum if she's good. Usually takes me a long time to cum unless she's a pro at controlling her pussy muscles/has a extra tight pussy.
Hold her hips and move them slow in the beginning. Communication is everything. You're paying for 300+ for FS. Take control and enjoy yourself!
Just get more practice
Practice makes perfect. I only like to cum at the end of a one hour session so have learned over the years how to control it. Frustrates WL's sometimes as I keep stopping or slowing down the session to prolong my enjoyment as I know that once you have cum most of them think their job is over.......I don't let them get away that easily.
Do most mls object to multiple rounds, if and when you finish early
Interesting to hear about some conditions leading to premature ejeculation. For me definitely in the head. Get too excited or wound up, never lasts long. Sometimes no matter what I just have to blow. Pump pump pump don't stop.
My best ever sex partner, a delightful Indian lass, with her eyes, her brown skin, the soft accent and laugh, sometimes I couldn't even get it out of my pants. Only ever happened with her, never close with anyone else, and strangely I miss it.
And yes, cowgirl full on, takes about 30 sec, reverse cowgirl about 15 seconds.
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