I've quit punting - friends with benefits setup

[bdjc]

I punt so I don't have to have a relationship ,wife or FWB. Done all three, it doesn't end well for me anyway.

I've concluded I just want to fuck. FWB's all end up wanting relationships in the end.

couldn't agree more 👍

[andrewv]

Hi, thought I'd share my experience I have been punting since 2019 (late to the party) and when I started I did it quite heavily spending over $40K AUD spread over two years around the Covid lockdown, I went to many shops and tried all sorts of girls building my own network where I could see them privately etc. but recently in the last 8 months I have gotten bored of it and even stopped masterbating for 6 months to have a break. One of my Japanese friends who doesn't work in the sex industry I had the best sex with her but she wanted me to give her a partner Visa to continue our friends with benefits (FWB) arrangement, which I'm not willing to do.

Anyways wanted to know your experiences if anyone have a primary partner who you live with but have setup a 'friends with benefits' arrangement with other girls or how you went about converting current female friends to FWB. I can't justify anymore spending money on punting because sometimes I want a girl for 6 hours for a good session to please her but that's a $1.5K hit haha.

I've tried and met several FWB girls through seeking.com
Most are uni students in their very early 20s. Cost is much higher than RNT and FS options, because you have to pay for hotel rooms and these girls usually expect a minimum of $400 and some are crazy and ask for $1000, but on average I paid them an "allowance" of about $600 which covers meeting for say 2 or 3 hours each time. Most will want to have you meet them weekly or at least every 10 days so your budget might be an issue...... I am sure some of the ones I met had more than 1 "sugardaddy" and were milking a lot of cash that way.