ML & WL's boyfriends/ partners

[11Bravo]

Can a girl have a normal life after this industry? I think it changes them forever.

IMO, it's like soldiers who've seen combat. It marks all of them. Some can't move on and are impaired for the rest of their lives. Others, while they'll never forget, put it behind them and move on with their life, civilian life.

I have spoken to a few WL's about this and asked them what are their plans after they leave the industry and how they will go with the transition. All of them basically said once they leave, they will cut all ties with everyone and I mean everyone connected to their work. Regular customers, WL friends, pimps, shop managers etc, everyone will be cut from their life including you. Despite having a number of regulars, there is no way in hell they will be your friend once they leave the industry.

And I agree with Riff. They are changed for the rest of their lives. Once they have achieved what they are there to achieve (pay off debt as example), they will leave. And trust me, the brutal truth is that 99.9% of WL's hate the job.

Agreed, they all hate it. It's just a means to an end.

Cutting ties... How is that so different then what anyone does when they change jobs, careers, cities? Cutting, but also a lot of fading... How many acquaintances do you keep in contact with when you've done the same? If you've changed careers, do you keep in contact with the previous career's clients when they have nothing to do with your current one? I think everyone just gets on with life, there are only 24 hours in a day. Just a different life.

Yeah man, totally get it. Despite how much we get along with WL’s, reality is that once they have left the industry, that’s it. Even when us punters hang out with WL’s outside the shop, it’s only for their benefit as in companionship or to keep us as punters. I asked one if we could still be friends after she quits and despite being a long term regular, she was like “no, once I’ve finished, I will not be in contact with anyone” which is understandable.

If I was in a WL’s position, I would do the same thing. New number, delete social media and move on with life. WL’s know what punters are like so why would they continue being friends after they quit ? Just my perspective. And I’m the same. No way would I want to be their friend knowing full well their history.

Why would you not want to be their friend because you know their history? Are they spoiled, stained? Maybe I misunderstand.

Certainly, most just disappear. But a few... I kept in contact with some, not exactly a Christmas card list, more a Happy New Year list after they went home. Most drift off as we all do... high school friends, uni friends, past work friends... same, disappearing into the mists of time. Superseded by current events...

[Riff888]

Some girls never leave.

I still see a girl I've known for years every now and then. She was popular at 244 Paddington and finished up around 2018. She lives with her BF in Tamworth.
But always keen for a hook up for a couple of 100 bucks.
She says "thanks for the help hon".
Who knows how many other men she keeps handy like this.

Also her: "I will bury my past when I leave this job". Well she hasn't buried everything.

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[Spanky69]

Money is easy to collect for some women. So why would a WL quit completely? I pay my GF, other guys I know pay their GFs. The only difference is they’re not WLs. Surely you guys give money freely to your wife or GFs. I’m not talking about money to pay bills, that’s separate. Just cash gifts.

[Spanky69]

Guys give & spend way more money on their GF's/wives (unknowingly). How much is a ring, wedding, cars, house, mortgage, kids private schools.. then divorce

How many guys have repeated exactly the same experience as you’ve just written about?

Literally hundreds of millions, perhaps a lot more.

[Niceguy11]

Some girls never leave.

I still see a girl I've known for years every now and then. She was popular at 244 Paddington and finished up around 2018. She lives with her BF in Tamworth.
But always keen for a hook up for a couple of 100 bucks.
She says "thanks for the help hon".
Who knows how many other men she keeps handy like this.

Also her: "I will bury my past when I leave this job". Well she hasn't buried everything.

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Its a good point you raised Riff in terms of burying their past. Its like smoking. Once a smoker, always a smoker.

The biggest issues for WL's in the future is that they know where to make a quick buck and that is despite being married or having a partner. If I was a ex WL, and was short on money, its so easy to go back and make easy money. On the flip side, I almost see punters including myself the same but no in terms of money but for sex. Get married or having a girlfriend is great but when the sex dries up, its straight back to the shop.

If I must be honest, I'll never stop punting despite wanting to stop. Its probably the same connection us punters have with WL's. The money is enticing to them. For punters, the need for sex is something that will last a lifetime.

Riff, damn I miss 244. So many great memories there. My first shop I ever punted at as well so it will always hold a special place in my heart.

[PELTERS]

A bad week for a WL is $2500 in the hand. Unless they live large they can get by on that.

Flat out wrong and misleading on purpose. A standard control technique to boot. The good wages are earned by the first grade chick's in the first grade shops in Sydney. Very many, not quite young, not quite pretty, are struggling to pay separate rent, and need to stay on premises. Or worse.

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