I already know how they operate, during lunch or dinner I’ll see them swipe up their phone screen numerous times. It means nothing as I’m doing the same thing playing around. What I don’t like is being kept waiting and if they make me wait on a reply I’ll go out of my way to make them wait even longer. I even tell them I’m making them wait a month, three months or even longer.
Yesterday out of the blue another HK WL messaged me, she started her second txt with “I told you” followed by “I’m coming back to Australia in August”. I instantly deleted the txt, she came back with “what’s the matter, you deleted the txt”? I said “I don’t like being told, bye” and deleted the txt a third time. Hopefully she’s learnt her lesson to talk to me with manners or not at all. Either way I don’t really care, she’s just a number and the world is full of numbers.
For some mind game fun an easy way is to let them select the places to go out for a meal then observe how familiar they are with the menu and waitstaff then open up a chat with the staff or offer to go to anyplace in the city close to where their crowd would hang and see if they’re receptive to that and if not then push to go there. Obviously they go with certain punters to certain places and don’t cross over.
I know dating them is outside of punting but it’s a logical next step for some.
The shock of almost getting an STD will do it (thought I got herpes on my butt/thigh but turned out to be shingles after swab test).
I also put the money that I'd have spent punting into a dedicated investment account. It really helps to see the amount going up every month. I have around $4k in the account now.