Reply With QuotePunting saves more marriages than it wrecks.
Wanting sexual release and/or naked intimacy isn't a mental disorder at all. You're doing fine.Originally Posted by SiberianKhatru98
Punting saves more marriages than it wrecks.
I'm not married but I do believe this to be the case. Dudes have higher sexual urges than women and if they aren't met, there will be issues.
Similar to how women have higher emotional needs that need to be met. Issue is that these are often connected to their sexual urges too, so if she finds another guy who can fulfil those emotional needs, chances are he'll also fulfil her sexual needs...
Ideal situation would be an agreement with the Mrs to allow you to leave the emotion at the door step out for an hour , check a box , then come back and continue both happy. But what's the odds of this ey
…don’t get married
You might be on to something?!
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“I've been thinking with my guts since I was fourteen years old, and frankly speaking, between you and me, I have come to the conclusion that my guts have shit for brains.”
― Nick Hornby, High Fidelity
Sweet. Fuck. All. ????
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“I've been thinking with my guts since I was fourteen years old, and frankly speaking, between you and me, I have come to the conclusion that my guts have shit for brains.”
― Nick Hornby, High Fidelity
Mate decided to stop punting and tried to get his wife interested is something different.
He joined AFF (Adult friend finder) and found a couple which he met first, then invited around for a bbq.
during the arvo things got a bit heated between the other couple and him and his wife and they all ended up exploring in the lounge room and it turned into fuck fest (so he says).
She now keen on meeting others for joint fun and he reckons she likes it and its not the usual boring fuck.
If I had a wife maybe I try it...
It really comes down to how much your wife is willing to satisfy you. My wife when she was my girlfriend gave me at least a blowjob everytime we met up. Then when we're in a relationship the fun stops. Part of me really regrets not addressing this before we got married.
I don't think it's a fair deal to expect emotional intimacy when the physical intimacy isn't there for the husband or partner. After countless talks, counsellors it still hasn't gotten through, so this is the way to preserve a so called marriage and still have my fun.
If my wife actually made an effort I actually wouldn't punt to be honest. Keep their bellys full and their balls drained is the best advice for a happy monogamous relationship.
Keep their bellys full and their balls drained...
Spot on JimCS!
If women seductively looked into their husband's eyes and gave them a HJ each day, then sex on Friday and a blow job Sunday, the massage parlours would be out of business
Made my wonder why I was in a relationship with her to begin with . Finally met someone in my late 50s that I thought I could settle down with (ie marry , never married either of us previously) . Liked her company but even though she never cheated she did flirt with a lot of other guys , it opened my eyes and finally decided all I wanted was sex and as much as I could get at my age (early 60s) without all the bullshit . Still friends but the passion isn't there anymore and have punted with a vengeance since with MLs and WLs
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