Reply With QuoteI find this as well..
I use to wonder why do i spend more when a brothel is cheaper & easier tbh.
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Yea that's me too these days, just try to go once or twice every 3-4 weeks, still keeps it semi exciting, and I just stick with the ones I know that can deliver, or use this forum if I am wanting to try someone new who comes highly recommended.Originally Posted by ergoproxy
But definitely had my post-nut clarity moments of like ...''should've gone to Ginza, that would've been way cheaper in comparison.''
I find this as well..
I use to wonder why do i spend more when a brothel is cheaper & easier tbh.
From reading the comments here, it seems that going to massage shops and brothels is not only a sexual outlet but to connect with a human female for an hour. It's an emotional need. Some blokes here have no family or social contacts, while I guess many others are in a robotic marriage that expired long ago.
Correct me if I am mistaken. I wonder if any men here would reply and say: "I am in a happy relationship which is very exciting sexually, but I also need to go to shops every now and then for variety." ☹️
---No matter how you look at it, punting is a lot cheaper than divorce.---
I can't say how I'm doing it on a public forum bro. But it's nothing illegal or anything like that. I can just say that the more I spend. The less tax I pay. Because I use the salary money to pay for all legit expenses that then lowers my tax rate. I have a good accountant let's just say that
Addicted ?!?! Most likely , realistically part of my lifestyle . Still have a social life , hobbies and a share mix with punting. Never married , single , had past relationships but I think a monogamous relationship is not for me .. I get bored too easily and repetitive , predictable routines definitely drive me nuts. Sex is there with breathing , sleeping and eating , can't do without though am particular with who .
What I thought of as bragging turned out to be more of a cry for help, maybe not, but...
That is how I tend to over read things.
May you find good counsels in the comforting bosoms of your fav WLs.
Yeap I’m definitely addicted. I used to punt 1-2 a month but more recently have been 4-5 times a week and sometimes drop in as part of my bedtime routine. I’ve been in a happy long term relationship for decades but unlike some, I don’t think sex makes or breaks a relationship and neither does my other half. Truthfully I just appreciate I live in a city where I can legally fuck as many 18-23 year olds as my heart desires but it does get boring sometimes. Money always a consideration but since my early days of seeing high end privates, $1-2K a week now goes a lot further since switching to mostly brothels.
I try to see different girls each time and rarely repeat but I know it’s become a problem when I look at the roster of certain shops and realise there is hardly anyone I haven’t already fucked.
That said, to me it’s just a fancy wank to empty the balls, not for companionship and whilst I agree standards used to be way higher across the industry there are a few places which get good quality girls and I’m sure I’ll stop eventually either due to my age or due to a dip in quality. Take Ginza for example, when I started there it was mostly C girls which just dont appeal to me. Now it’s full of J girls which I have always liked and convinced this won’t last forever and when Japans economy eventually turns a corner they’ll be gone and we’ll all be craving the good times.
As someone else mentioned I find punting overseas much more exciting due to the novelty value but feel blessed living in Sydney as it’s better than 99% of the rest of the world.
Hahaha, that’s a brilliant way to think of it.
How much were you paying the single mum each time for BBBJ and swallow?
---No matter how you look at it, punting is a lot cheaper than divorce
Been addicted for years now. As long as you dont catch feelings by having regulars and its in your budget then I dont see the problem. Its just an expensive hobby.
Thanks mate don't worry though, no cry for help I'm ok, I'm not in a position where I should complain about anything haha
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Yea that would be me, hence why I prefer to see regulars and just chat and laugh away, even been tempted to just pay for the hour and hangout, although haven't done that yet. But definitely a sucker/simp in some ways at times, in saying that, I could just as easily go on dates and do the same thing but somehow feel they have more pressure on them than punting.
I'm bored,not addicted
This is me
Im happy and have a partner.
Sexually I am satisfied and get it whenever I feel like it from her. Anything i want, she does (except threesomes) and the sex is crazy good
The one issue is, she doesnt have big tits. Theyre C cups which are great, but by no means does she have them like Polla or Soda do.
So I started this to stick my cock in between big juicy oiled up tits and fuck them without risking STD's
I got the idea from Paizuriguy on Reddit. IYKYK
Only took 6 months to begin requesting FS and bending every ML with a nice ass to go along with big tits over the massage tables and cumming inside them (with dom on) every chance i got
I've reigned it in now as I have my 2 go-to ML's who are quite liberal with me...and while i havent punted in over 2 months......
But seeing new girls pop up on rosters definitely makes me crave some variety. Thrill of the unknown
Addicted. Kind of yes. But more just craving variety rather than connection
Good thread for some self-reflection..
Yes, I think I'm addicted. Been punting for around 2 years now.. started with Kings Court, then E&B privates, then 108 Mirage, and these days mostly Ada's massage shops.
Honestly, it feels like a bottomless pit that never gets filled.
I'm happily married, but there were certain desires like oral and etc. that weren't being fulfilled in my relationship.. and that's where it all started. I somehow convinced myself that punting was therapy for my mental well-being.. lol.
Initially, I went to Kings Court thinking I'd just sit in a spa with sexy ladies, enjoy some touching, LFK and a happy ending. No sex meant I was still being a good boy.. haha.
Then came E&B privates.. still no sex, just happy endings. About a year later, one girl got me so excited that I finally crossed that line and had sex.. and there was no looking back.
Fast forward to today.. I was recently doing the maths and realised I've probably spent $25K in 2 years, easily 100 punts!
Now I crave at least one punt every week.. and even that's evolving. It's no longer just about sex or a happy ending. I want more passionate, intimate, proper GFE encounters.. DFK, cuddling, chemistry, everything.
The scary thing about desire is that satisfying it doesn't always make it disappear.. sometimes it just teaches you to want more.
I genuinely think I'm addicted. No major regrets, but definitely not proud of it either.
Do I want to become sane again? Absolutely. But do I have the willpower? Honestly, I don't know.
Has anyone here been through something similar and managed to get it under control? Any advice? Please help me..
And here's the ridiculous irony.. even while writing this confession, part of my brain is wondering who gives the best passionate DFK in Sydney massage shops.. which shop, which girl? Please tell me..
Yes, always chasing that high of the first time...
I guess we are happy but... not 100% happy.
I am in a similar boat as you and but not as deep down the rabbit hole. I only go once a month but the scary thing is that I am craving for the GFE experience.
You will need to find an activity or something that you like doing that will occupy your sparetime....
Addicted and feeling empty because most sessions turn out to be the same routine. It's the thought of "next one will be different" that keeps me on the treadmill
You won't believe it, so I prefer not to say. I was on clouds for a couple of months. I don't know why she was doing that so cheap, she so young and beautiful. I was really depressed when I ruined it. the funny thing was the swallow happened by accident the first time and then she kept doing that.
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