Punting itself is fantastic and no doubts I have had many memorable experiences. In saying that, I do miss the true GFE experience with a girl that is truly into me. Don't get me wrong, sex is important in every relationship, but that feeling of holding hands, kissing at spontaneous moments etc better than punting ?

I suppose my point of view is from both sides of the coin. You have to weigh up what is in your best interest moving forward. For me, i'm thinking along the lines of the OP.