Quote Originally Posted by quagmire View Post
Relationships with a WL are almost always doomed, unless you are wealthy enough to take her away and start again it will not last. I am currently seeing a lady regularly at her home, until yesterday we were both being very cool about it.
I know she is fucking lots of men and she knows I am fucking other girls, she often invites one over on her days off for me if she is not up for it. I do have feelings for her but I've kept them in check and I was unsure how she felt about me as she has been very cool with everything. But something happened yesterday, she was at work at the shop and I was at her place with one of her friends, in the evening she called to tell me the shop was quiet and I should come over, I was too tired and was heading home.
She then started to question me about the other girl, this was only the second time I had seen her friend but she was clearly unhappy and admitted to being jealous, she was really struggling with it because she hadn't realized that she had developed an attachment to me. I had to reassure her that I had no feelings for the other girl but admitted to her that I do have for her. I am not sure where it goes from here, we both have complicated lives and combining them can only make matters worse. I have no intention of trying to be a "white knight" or some such, today we will catch up and clear the air.
Yeah, I trust is the biggest thing being in a relationship with a WL, but you are brave spending time at her place with her friend. Thats kinda odd if you ask me...