Quote Originally Posted by chariot View Post
Yes. Punters also take the consequences seriously. But SB has additional risks. There are infinitely more things to be careful about with an SB if your private reputation must remain clean. Most WLs don't have our full names or mobile phone numbers. Hell, most WLs don't know even our real first names. Anonymity has major advantages for some

So for example, do you give your SB your primary mobile phone number, and after how many dates do you give a SB your real first and last name?
What do you tell her if she wants to put your face photo on her insta feed, do you care? What I'd she likes your photo on Facebook, does that matter?

My mate had this issue: A few years after they stopped dating, a SB wrote an entry on a forum about him with his first and last name and some identifying facts about his workplace, that shows up on a Google search of his name.
Ah I see. That sounds like an arrangement that went beyond casual dating - more like a long term relationship. I don’t get into anything of a serious nature or let feelings into it. I only see women who don’t want anything serious.