What if people start treating others with respect and not treating the forum as if it's a private "cliques-only" playground? Maybe that's why this forum is driving away traffic in the first place apart from the fantasized reviews and claims of ginormous manhood e.g. banging four girls at the same time, and having their cliques cheering for them in subsequent comments like typical social media trolls.

This is just my 2 cents. Also the "dating WL/ML" threads, maybe make it a private thread instead because there's people who either think sex workers as sewage or pretend to behave that way to discourage punters from actually wooing a sex worker of choice. If it's made private then whatever username both parties want to use can chat with each other as if it was a dating forum. If they're both happy and want to take it to the next level, they can exchange contacts through PM. I know it may be a hassle to see a favourite sex worker at her workplace daily so if the sex worker doesn't trust this customer 100% with her private contact they can use the forum for such communications until they're ready.

Doesn't matter if my proposal gets rejected but it's worth a thought.