Funny quick story related to punting for learning: I keep a spreadsheet of my expenses to make sure budgeting appropriately and I'm never in the red for a given month. So my spreadsheet has a "Category" column to summarise where my expenses are coming from, so when I added my first punt damage I was like "hmmm, is this 'Leisure' or 'Self development'?". And in the end I was like "yeah, this is self development fo sho". Funny how we justify these things in my minds ��
For now put it under self-development, probably should put it under Leisure afterwards at some point.


One part I left out of my first writeup was I when I was sitting at Hyde Park cos I got the Museum Station early, I started to freak out a little bit when the booking time was nearing. Like "holy fuck, what am I doing", "why the hell did I think this is a good idea", "wtf is going to happen?" and just random ridiculous thoughts. But I reminded myself why I was doing this, and how awesome it's gonna be when I come to the other side (not necessarily today) a transformed person who's more confident embodying their sexual being. It's probably gonna take some time, so I will be patient with it and trust the process.
1st time I had no idea what to expect and hella anxious because I decided to book with some hesitation to begin with. Picked purely based on looks and didn't know that communication was a big factor for me back then. Didn't finish and I didn't muster up the courage to go again till like 1.5 or 2 years later.

2nd time had a better idea of what to expect, picked a girl who could speak English and was rated highly service-wise. Appearance-wise the girl just wasn't my type (she wasn't ugly, just not my type). I learned that picking someone who was my type appearance-wise was important (i.e. I'd probably need to pick a 7/10 my type appearance-wise VS a 10/10 not my type). Also learned that I did enjoy how proactive the girl was though. Had to get myself over the line.

3rd time had a pretty good idea of what to expect, picked someone different who spoke English, known for their service, appearance-wise was my type and proactive. Again, had to get myself over the line (anxious about time), but I think had the session been longer, wouldn't have had to.

4th time, the same girl, had some rapport, was less anxious about time, finished.

As you said, it'll take some time for you to work out what you need before you get fairly comfortable.


Yeah for sure, my first handful of punts I'm probably gonna pick women with "experienced" or "PSE" in their descriptions who can take the lead a bit. At least while I'm building up my confidence and comfort levels.
But man, I'm also looking at the profiles of the J girls with "inexperienced innocent high school type" in their descriptions. and fuck they are sooooooo cute ��. I really want to try these types of girls at some point, but not yet to save myself the possibility of mutual awkwardness.
Oh so you want the full oniichan UwU experience ay? HAHA