Next time when I go for a legit massage (as I have done a few times), I might tell her, "You know, I would love to help you save up for the new car. I know how difficult it is to live in Sydney without a car especially when you had one that is now a wreck. To be honest with you, $1,000 is outside my budget and I want to help if you let me give you $300. Would this work?"