Not sure why some have to analise the shite out of what one spends in some of the posts. But to be honest I have a very healthly relationship and sex life with my partner of 20 years, and "NO" I'm not going to work out how much I've spent over the years. But the reason why I punt is that I like the variety (women that is) without sleeping around and developing another relationship, which from seeing the experience of others os pretty damaging. Punting for me is all transactional and about my pleasure alone. I guess I can blame one of my uncles from the days of old from taking me to a place called Club Volvo HK, now that was a place one has to experience.