Hey everyone,

I am here looking for some genuine advice.

I'm 21, male, a virgin, extremely introvert, absolutely zero experience in the sexual department. Lately, I've been feeling my sex drive pretty strongly and feel like it's time to change that, but honestly, I have no clue where to start. Actually, I have never touched women.

I was thinking of trying a massage first. Not for sex, just to get more comfortable with physical touch and intimacy in a relaxed setting. Kinda like a 'warm-up' before the main event.

And full disclosure: I've got a bit of a foot fetish. Is that something I should even bring up, especially for a first time? And if so, when and how do you even mention something like that without making things awkward?

I do masturbate fairly often. If I'm planning on actually getting intimate for the first time, should I stay away from masturbating and watching porn for a few days beforehand?

Anyway, really open to all kinds of advice here.

Thanks a bunch in advance!