As much as I hate to say it, there is some merit to the saying 'treat her mean, keep her keen'. No woman is going to respect a man who is constantly under the thumb. If you're looking for companionship, consider a mail order bride or similar. There are plenty of foreigners who are willing to marry and stay with you for citizenship. You may even fall in love eventually. Hell, we live in one of the best countries in the world.

Stop looking for love with wl/ml, as it never ends well.