Nice guys don't always end up with pretty girls. You can pick her up in your car, take her to a classy restaurant and pay the bill but will this convince her that you're her man... I don't think so. On the other hand, another guy turns up on the scene and treats her with no respect with the result that she falls for him. It is not uncommon to see this happening with the nice guys always finishing last.

We all know that women today are difficult to understand. They change very quickly to suit their own needs. For your girl to stand you up twice at the last minute shows she doesn't have much respect for you. It's best to let her go and find someone who will show you more respect and be keen to be with you when you propose to go out. In the future, if you plan to arrange a meeting with someone, don't rely solely on an SMS. Follow it up with a phone call so you can be sure she is aware of your intentions.