Totally agree that everything must be with the girl's permission and you must respect her as a woman, not just an object.
Sex should be satisfying to both parties IMHO. So many punters just treat the girls as dirt and as a receptacle for their semen rather than human beings and are very self centered and selfish.
When seeing a new girl always ask them straight out to tell you if you try to do something that they do not like to tell you immediately but to also tell you what they do like. Boater always put that in his ARs.
Taking it slowly helps to develop her trust and biological response normally will kick in. This develops the chemistry which is a must in any relationship, short term or long term.












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