Quote Originally Posted by the wizard View Post
I think we would all be better off if we could take the time, make that connection
For me that is true, but it is not for everyone. If others are looking for something different, then I have no issue with that.

In the environment of a brothel, its very easy to have sex - just walk up and pay your money

But its much harder to have good sex (mainly for the reasons Rooter has listed) than it is in a non-paid-for environment. Its just that the 'paid-for' environment suits me at present, and I like mutual pleasure, so I seek to involve the lady as well.

There are a WIDE range of people who visit brothels and for a equally wide range of reasons. It is not for me to tell anyone how they should be or what they should be looking for. This is just what I do and what I am looking for

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