Best techniques to make the girls come?

[the wizard]

I wan't born yesterday Rooter. Despite there being another human being looking at you out of that working lady's eyes, the circumstances do normally create the situation you describe.

At the same time, and even conceding all that, just because she is being paid does not mean she should be treated like an object solely there for my pleasure.

And despite all the issues and reasons why not, every so often I do meet someone who I truly do get on with, but that is a completely different thread ...

Boater

I understand where Boater is coming from, and agree that would be the most preferred outcome at least for me anyway.
Router's comments are also be too true and can be a reality check.
The WL's are what they are, but they are a human beings first.
I think we would all be better off if we could take the time, make that connection- sometimes it happens, sometimes it doesn't.

I know that the feeling that you have - both have, when a connection is made, the genuine smile and affection when the girl see's you
and is happy and wants to see YOU, yes YOU again and again is.... priceless.......

[boater]

I think we would all be better off if we could take the time, make that connection

For me that is true, but it is not for everyone. If others are looking for something different, then I have no issue with that.

In the environment of a brothel, its very easy to have sex - just walk up and pay your money

But its much harder to have good sex (mainly for the reasons Rooter has listed) than it is in a non-paid-for environment. Its just that the 'paid-for' environment suits me at present, and I like mutual pleasure, so I seek to involve the lady as well.

There are a WIDE range of people who visit brothels and for a equally wide range of reasons. It is not for me to tell anyone how they should be or what they should be looking for. This is just what I do and what I am looking for

Boater

[rooter]

These girls are human treat them right, show thwm you care about them and your punting will go to the next level and this is an area where the asian ladies excell.

We are lucky to have this forum to help us find these lovely ladies make the most of it and look after them that way we all end up winners.

Absolutely, I agree 100%. I always treat the ladies with total respect and pamper them like princesses. We always have a nice chat, I make them laugh, lots of kissing licking, and sucking (if they are into it) and I give them an awesome fuck (and if they like it rough and hard I am happy to oblige). On many occasions I make them come, and, we usually enjoy a cuddle or spooning at the end. And in return they treat me like a king!
I treat them this way because they are women and thats how you treat women, end of story. I don't know any other way.
but even if you were a selfish prick, so selfish that you couldn't grasp this simple fact. It would still be in your own self interest to treat the ladies well, because clearly if you treat them well they will treat you well in return.
In all my years of punting I can honestly say I have never had a bad session with a lady. Some have been just good, most excellent, and some absolutely mind blowing. And its simply because of the way I treat the ladies .

[bill_100]

I believe that statistically, the attitudes of punters can be regarded in the light of where we fall on an age Bell curve.
The "wham/bang" types fall mainly into the younger fellows who are more likely to think they are using and paying a girl purely as a "receptical for their semen". These are more likely to be the fellows who have short bookings.

The older ones are more likely to be interested in the "mutual satisfaction" concept and thus are patient and have longer bookings to allow this more chance of happening.

[rooter]

I believe that statistically, the attitudes of punters can be regarded in the light of where we fall on an age Bell curve.
The "wham/bang" types fall mainly into the younger fellows who are more likely to think they are using and paying a girl purely as a "receptical for their semen". These are more likely to be the fellows who have short bookings.

The older ones are more likely to be interested in the "mutual satisfaction" concept and thus are patient and have longer bookings to allow this more chance of happening.

There are always exceptions of course but I agree with you, age is definitely a factor. Well, maturity anyway - age and maturity are not always the same thing. I think WLs generally prefer slightly older men (though not really old ones of course) because they generally treat the WLs much better. Then again, they are only human and probably enjoy having a fit young toned footy player fucking their brains out every now and then too

[boater]

Then again, they are only human and probably enjoy having a fit young toned footy player fucking their brains out every now and then too

Well yes, one teenager memorably said to me recently "This would be so good if you were 10 years younger!" though that was with reference to my stamina.

Boater

[Littlewonder]

Well yes, one teenager memorably said to me recently "This would be so good if you were 10 years younger!" though that was with reference to my stamina.

Boater

Some of them might have thought it with me but no one has actually said it! Lets face it most of the girls are very diplomatic particularly if they want you to come back.

[boater]

Some of them might have thought it with me but no one has actually said it! Lets face it most of the girls are very diplomatic particularly if they want you to come back.

Dishonesty is such a stock in trade in this industry that I actually really appreciate honest statements like that. In a way it was quite a complement. It also makes it so much easier to adjust to what the lady enjoys. The same girl later told me (after I had worked a bit on my stamina) "wow, I have never cum that intensely in my whole life".

So it cuts both ways

Boater

[Littlewonder]

Dishonesty is such a stock in trade in this industry that I actually really appreciate honest statements like that. In a way it was quite a complement. It also makes it so much easier to adjust to what the lady enjoys. The same girl later told me (after I had worked a bit on my stamina) "wow, I have never cum that intensely in my whole life".

So it cuts both ways

Boater

Sounds like you have a real connection with this girl " Boater" I would be going to see her again, and again, and again.

[Travelmate]

It is always working for me.....
There is no trouble with connection and getting the max pleasure out from them !

[Littlewonder]

It is always working for me.....
There is no trouble with connection and getting the max pleasure out from them !

No your right it can infact be very rewarding and makes punting even better.

[Ceath]

Sextus, first allow me to commend you for starting such a quality thread. It is much appreciated, even if a lot of that appreciation is silent.
I am still quite a newbie to sexual techniques and all, but throughout my long history of internet browsing, i have stumbled upon a similar thread/post in a chinese adult forum, posted by a (very experienced) woman, no less. In the post she described a few techniques as well as some personal opinions on male anatomy and male attitudes in sex. I haven't actually had the chance to try out most of those techniques so please keep that in mind. heres a translatation of some of the techniques she posted:

1. while you are pumping in and out, use your hand to rub her clitoris. Speed up as she nears her climax. After she climaxes you should remove your hand from her clitoris as it might become painful due to over-sensitivity. Keep the thrusting motion in a medium high pace and try to climax after the girl, as the girls vaginal wall becomes more sensitive after climax, meaning your thrusts after that will have more bang for your buck, so to speak :P

2. when doing DATY, do not go straight for the clitoris as most girls will be too sensitive at the start. Instead, slowly move your way up to the clitoris by starting at the inner thighs or labia. When you do work your way up to the clitoris, you can start by licking the left and right side of the clitoris, with a sideways swipe across the clitoris itself (with your tongue). During this part, be careful of where your teeth is!
Another technique for oral is while retaining a bit of saliva in your mouth, cover the clitoris with your lips, and open and close your moist lips(moist with saliva), a bit like a fish. For variety, when using your tongue, instead of using the tip of your tongue, try using the underside of your tongue to do a press down motion and rubbing motion.

Ok i will stop there for now since i need to go out. Translating is a lot harder than i thought.

[cisco]

One good lesson , just like your comment

[cheekyport]

slow, rhythmical tongue work on the labia majora with an occasional deeper lick to the labia minora brushing up against, but not focussing on, the clitoris. Best to have her lying on the bed and you kneeling in front of her. Gets any woman going: always.

Pretty good advice Wayne. Working the labia / clit gets them going. I also like to work the breasts, with very gentle bites on the areoli.

[babelx]

How about them sex toys? I reckon they are good at making girls cum. Not sure about WL though. Most WL don't want to cum because it makes them tired.

[luigi]

not every WL would like to cum each session. It may make them extremely tied. Sometime they fake it to satisfy the customers. Girls mostly like gentle and slow sex, but not for some who just want you the blow the load and lay down to chat (lazy...........). When the girl said speed up the stroke or she moving quicky when on top, its a sign she want the seesion to end.

[Travelmate]

not every WL would like to cum each session. It may make them extremely tied. Sometime they fake it to satisfy the customers. Girls mostly like gentle and slow sex, but not for some who just want you the blow the load and lay down to chat (lazy...........). When the girl said speed up the stroke or she moving quicky when on top, its a sign she want the seesion to end.

of course .. .common sense

[lonewolf77]

I am sorry to be a naysayer but i really really doubt that the WLs come as much as the ARs seem to specify. almost every AR seems to state that the girl came. Girls in general have a hard time coming, it takes them ages to figure out how to make themselves cum much less then be able to do that with a man / partner. It also takes them a long time to get comfortable enough with their partner to inform and teach on how best to make them cum. Some girls can come easily and / or learn it at a younger age, others never cum due to emotional and mental restrictions / issues and / or only learn in their middle ages etc.

The idea that so many WLs who are seeing multiple men a day every day..are coming left, right and center? Do they come occasionally...possibly some of them might either because they are one of the lucky few girls who are able to come easily or they are comfortable and been seeing that customer on a regular basis for a while or they are really attracted to the customer and the customer is really knowledgeable with what makes that particular girl work.

Apparently like 20-30% of women cant even come without anal as it hits just the right angle for them...So there are just soo many variables and each woman is so different physically, emotionally and mentally....But orgasm / coming is different for a lady. They are always feeling a semi orgasm / feeling good even without coming, just the motion and the friction...its not like for men, for us we only come at the end otherwise its like nothing happened almost. For women they are feeling it to a lesser degree throughout the experience of course their orgasm is still more powerful.

[Sextus]

Great comments lone wolf. I started this thread because in the AR's I was reading about an awful lot of coming going on, and that was contrasting with both my own experience and my own AR's in which you'll always find me to be totally real.

But there are guys out there for sure, like Bill_100 and Little Wonder and others whose words are fully real, I can tell that easily.

I have encountered some girls who come a lot easier than I expected, but that was due to them much more than me. Eg. She is riding me in cowgirl and grinding, and I am just grinding back at her. What can be simpler than that? No specialised techniques whatsoever. That's fucking me!

I really should get a non WL fuck buddy for a while, (if they exist) - not a formal girlfriend, please no - so that everything isn't dictated by a clock for once.

[Clinton]

The clock thing annoys me. Sometimes, I wonder why I don't go to bars and pick up chicks over there. Anyone had any success in getting a girl that way here? Are all the punters here losers in picking up girls from bars? I am not good at it. I admit.