I always treat MLs (and other women too) with courtersy and respect and I really do detest guys that mistreat or look down on them. I guess in my earlier post I was just having a light hearted laugh at the husbands expense. If the ladies are doing this behind their backs because they feel they have no choice, then yeah that's very sad and unfortunate. If the husband/BF knows on the other hand then i do think they deserve ridicule.

Anyway, no big deal - let's move on