Mate, I think you've just answered your own question. If you were working 6 days a week, would you have time too 'date' someone, let alone have time to yourself? Take these scenarios as possibilities,Originally Posted by project_manager006
Assuming that the ML works night shifts, finishes no earlier than 3-4 am, goes home, goes about her 'normal life', sleeps at 9-12 noon, wakes up at 6 pm or so and starts her shift all over again at 7-8 pm.
Now, if you were able to accomodate these times, you will have a chance of having a 'normal relationship'. Basically, hanging out with her after her shift for a drink or late, late meal, possibly sex before 'bedtime' and so on.
If she is a day shift girl, you wouldn't have a problem. Times are aligned and chances of spending quality time are higher.
Personally, from my experience, I was working days waking up at 5-6 am or so, and she was just finishing up her shift. We would meet up for breakfast before I went to work. By lunchtime, she would be asleep. At dinner time, she would wake up and have a meal with me before she started her shift. this would be the 'norm' in my situiation.On Friday night, she would work til 5-6 am, I would wake up then and meet her. Drive out to the water to watch the sunrise before heading back after lunch for her sleep. After a month, she had left her work and I was 'supporting' her for the next couple of months.
From what I have told you, there is a high possibility of it working if you were after companionship. I wouldn't expect too much intimacy or sexual activity, seeing that it is what she would normally do 6 days a week. If you do have feelings for her, and is mutual, spend some quality time with her, if not, just enjoy the physical aspect of it.
If and when she drops her shifts, there is a possibilty that she chooses to have more time with you and herself. However, unless you are prepared to support her, be wary if she decides to 'quit' all of a sudden. She may expect you to 'support' her and her living expenses. In which case, could be seen as a 'business' arrangement'
Example: $300/rent, $150/incidentals = $450 a week, in return; say 3-4 x times sex a week. Now, this does not include meals together or 'outings' ie. movies, shows, short trips away, drinks
All the above is based on my experience, (from a past relationship) so please do take this with a grain of salt. I do not know your situation in entirety, but would be more than happy to offer 'suggestions' if you see that it is plausible.
Best of luck, pm
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