my list so far:

too old
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AHLUNGOR

too young
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babycat
caffery

different race
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shootermcgavin (too bogan)

to rich
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GoldfishMan

not enough intel
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Mitch2
Raybo
CL
Shoryureppa

dark horse
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puntercouple
daveo123 < dark horse or too creepy
magicman < dark horse
Alan86 < right age

confirmed not mr x
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targajajouka
harrycd
Sam88
beta101

lol