Yeah I think this is bad. Was gonna go with option one but thinking of the cheated wife and innocent kids, husband going behind her back screwing young Asian chicks, doesn't sit well with me. If I was married and discovered the wife being secretly unfaithful, I would be devastated. I'm not a goody two shoes but surely there is somewhere you gotta draw the line when it comes to family. Unless of course it's an open marriage or there is no more love anymore and divorce is the only way if not of the kids blah blah. Heck it's depressing to think about it