Hmm I don't blame her for wanting to get in the shower with you, WL makeup takes ages (so if they do get in there with you, be extra appreciative!) and if you asked her three times (all refused) of course you're going to wreck the whole vibe by coming off as pushy dude... But yeah, this does seem odd for 22Brodie.. The girls there are usually more than friendly and happy to accommodate... perhaps you got her on a bad day (which we all have)
Hope you have better luck next time bro